I
met my friend `B` after several years. He was having dinner with his family and
some friends at the Club where I am also
a member. When I asked him what was the occasion, he smiled and replied, `Oh! I
am celebrating my 20th Birthday`.
Intrigued I asked , `What do you mean?`.
B was three years older than me and I was already 75.
He
laughed, ` If you want to know, come home I will tell you the full story`.
When
he was 38, `B` had moved to a country in the Gulf where he started a
business connected with the building industry. Within 20 years he had built a
small business empire employing over 500 people and was making lots of money.
Thanks to his constant travel and the high stress business he was in, he had a massive heart attack in the middle of a
meeting.. He was 58. Timely medical attention saved his life but investigations
revealed that he had six blocks in his
arteries and would need a surgery. He
flew to Chennai and met a top cardio surgeon in a five star hospital, known to
him personally. The Doctor opined that
he may not survive a surgery. He told `B`, `Your heart has taken a severe beating
. It is obviously the result of the high stress business you are involved
in. I suggest that you change your life
style, and if necessary give up your business and start a new life. I will
prescribe some medicines which you take regularly. More than that pray God and
hope for the best. Miracles do happen you know`.
`B`
was shattered. It was like a death sentence
without a time frame. He went into depression. His wife and two children
rallied round him to help him come out of the depression. He sold his business
in the Middle East and settled in Chennai, leading a sedate and relaxed retired life, since he had earned enough to
last two lifetimes. He followed a strict
diet, took his medicines
regularly and also excercised without
fail. Regular checkups then on indicate
that all his parameters are ok. He is as fit as anyone in his late seventies
could be.
`B`
added, ` Since that year I celebrate the date on which my doctor friend gave me
his verdict, as my new birthday. I had survived six blocks without
surgery. Yesterday, at the Club we were celebrating my new 20th
birthday`.
Before
I could recover from the miraculous survival story of my friend I read a similar story in the club magazine involving another club member.
His story in his own words: ` It was an uneventful Friday in late April 2009, quite like any
other day in the lives of most jobless senior citizens. While relaxing in an
easy chair with my morning newspaper I
started getting this funny sensation in my left wrist .I tried to ignore it
initially. I quickly finished my lunch
and decided to lie down for some time, in the hope that it will stop but the sensation persisted. My hoping against
hope proved to be in vain.
As
my family was away , I drove
myself to a hospital just a kilometre away for a check up. I was promptly put in ICU, since my ECG was abnormal.
”Angiogram revealed SIX major blocks in my
arteries, a few even 90 %. The friendly cardio surgeon in the hospital opined
that both Bye pass surgery and
Angioplasty were ruled out because the blocks were too many. He
recommended that I try my luck by changing my lifestyle to include a strict diet and
regular walk. I was asked to reduce my
weight immediately as I was really
overweight. He also prescribed some
expensive medicines. With hope in my heart and prayers on my lips I
started a new phase in my life.
Subsequent check ups revealed
that nature (GOD) had done a natural Bye pass already, as revealed in
the Treadmill test, followed by a Thallium test in Black and White done in the
Nuclear Medicine Dept of the Hospital. God had
saved me from the trauma of undergoing Bye Pass surgery.
I have come across a few other friends,
especially from middle class families, who were diagnosed with one, two or even
three blocks, surviving without undergoing surgery or angioplasty by changing their life style and taking
alternative medicines; leading me to
believe that it is not necessary to rush with surgery in all cases of blocks in
arteries. Regular medication and exercises can help in avoiding expensive surgeries which sometime lead to
other complications. Unfortunately, in
many such situations the doctors and hospitals black mail the family
members to believe that the patients will drop dead any time, if an emergency
operation is not performed. I believe
that senior citizens, particularly those
who have left an active life behind them should think twice before agreeing to such
surgeries.
a good lesson for all senior citizens! It is never too late to change.m forwarding this to all my sneior citizen friends!
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