I have this bad habit of constantly clearing my throat which according to my late wife sounded like
a` `neighing of a horse`. She would get irritated but felt helpless. In the
Western World this could be a possible reason for the wife seeking a divorce.
Most of us have some irritating habit or the other which we are not aware of.
Some such habits could also harm a person.
Like my friend who has the habit of inserting a pen or pencil in one of his ears and constantly twisting it while he is in deep thoughts. My ex-boss , a
handsome man with a lovely moustache had the habit of constantly caressing his
moustache but suddenly he will start pulling a hair or two from the moustache
when he was agitated about something. Nail biting or nose picking are a few
other obnoxious habits which some people
have even when they are grown ups.
According to a report in the Press, experts have divided repetitive, non functional
motor behaviours into three categories .”First there are classic tics involving
quick, jerky motions of the head, neck or arms preceded by an urge, akin to an
itch that needs to be scratched. Tics can also be phonic such as grunting, sniffing,or
throat clearing (as I do). Next are more fluid and rhythmic like body rocking, finger
drumming and leg bobbing. The report groups compulsive nail biting, hair pulling , skin picking etc.
under body focussed repetitive
behaviours.
All these behaviours are what experts call
`Unvoluntary` as opposed to involuntary muscle twitch or tremor. It is
interesting to note that the experts feel that such acts are a form of
communication. They may be reflecting
the anxiety, boredom, anger, sadness or tension that the person might be
undergoing resulting in such behaviours.
Can such behaviours be controlled or
stopped completely. There is no conclusive
findings on that.
There is another behaviour, unrelated to the above reports, that we know as stammering. I know of a few friends and
relatives who stammer , some very badly,
during a normal conversation. But when they are behind a mike or on the stage,
they talk normally. The most well known
example of this was -late `Zul Vellani` who used to stammer very badly
when in conversation but transformed himself as a fantastic `voice over` when lending his voice
for a documentary or as a stage actor in some plays staged in the sixtees and
seventees. Another example is that of actor
Hrithik Roshan.
'What
causes stammering?' Most experts agree that “it is due to a combination of factors -
physiological, neurological, psychological and environmental - but the precise
ways that these factors operate together is not known, and clearly the
combination will be different from one individual to another”. Fortunately it is possible now to get over
this problem by speech therapies and
cures offered by other specialists.
There
are many speech therapists in Chennai who claim to provide cure for stammering.
Some of them specialise in treating young children with the problem. If treated
early the success rate is high.
( This article
has appeared in the Adyar Times issue dt 11-17th March,2018 under my
column `Rajan`s Random Reflections`)
How about scratching the head while engaged in a face to face conversation. Yawning-real ones and provocative ones expression of boredom. Frequently combing the hair (as you have been doing. Giggling especially by ladies for attracting attention of people in the group.
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