Story telling from being
a hobby has become a career for many.. My second daughter, one of the the
founder members of Bangalore Story Telling Society is one such person who has
taken to story telling with great
passion. She tells me that Story
telling is no more restricted to children with morals but is used as a communication tool even by Corporates in their
training sessions. There are professional training institutes training
interested candidates in this art which used to be the prerogative of the grand
parents of yore! Alas, with the disintegration of
joint families today`s children are denied the benefit of this important
means of learning about our mythologies,
traditions and cultures.
As a boy brought up
in Mumbai, far away from our grandparents based in Chennai, my siblings
and I were denied the privilege of hearing stories from them. My father neither had the inclination nor interest in telling stories; my mother, who was always
under tremendous pressure with domestic chores, found very little time to
enlighten us on this score. She would make it up by taking us sometimes to Pravachanams
of scholars who came visiting Bombay to give discourses on Ramayanam or Mahabharatham . The result was that I grew
up with limited knowledge of our heritage.
While my lack of knowledge of heritage did not affect my
building a successful career as an advertising professional, it posed a major
challenge when my grand children arrived. When they would come visiting and expected me to tell them stories,
I was at a loss. When I tried to cook up stories from the epics with my limited
knowledge, they would pull me up for the mistakes I was making in narrating the stories because they had already heard the stories from their
paternal grandparents. It became very embarrassing. I found a solution. I
bought several story books for children. Whenever they demanded stories from me
I started reading out from the story books. It was a sheer joy to be nestled with them in beds and
reading stories. They were happy and I was happy that I managed to retain my reputation as a story
teller.
Undoubtedly story telling is one of the best ways to teach
children values of life.It is an art which
requires a good memory on the part of the story
teller. Newspapers are full of horror
stories about cri me against women, not sparing even the toddlers and young
children. We cannot stop these by enacting laws. I believe that this menace can
be tackled only through education. Boys must be taught to respect girls/women
from childhood.. Teaching them life lessons through stories is one effective
way, like it is happening in Japan. I understand that in Japan, for the first few
years school children are taught Japanese traditions and culture through
activities including story sessions.
Closer
home I was delighted to learn about an 86 years old grandma spinning stories
for a few hours daily to students of Bala Mandir, a school for underprivileged
children,. She has been doing this for the last three decades as a volunteer.
We need many more such volunteers among the senior citizens who can not only
bring joy and hope into the lives of kids but also spend their time usefully.
It
will be also a good idea for every school to have a couple of special story
telling classes every week for creating
a whole new generation of youngsters with right values of life.
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