“Jaya!
Did you get any letter from Radha?”
This
was the first question that Rajesh asked his wife every day for the last two
months, as soon as he returned from his office.
“Even
today, no letter from her”.
“It
is more than three months since she went to Delhi after marriage. Except for the letter saying
that she reached Delhi
safely and that she is settling down in her new home, we have no further communication
from her. I am worried Jaya. Besides, I am not able to face mummy pestering me about the well being of Radha”
“I
think it might be a good idea for you to visit Delhi once and find out for yourself what is
going on with Radha”
“Yes,
I will wait for a few more days and decide”, Rajesh.
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Rajesh
and his younger sister Radha came from a middle class background. Though hailing from Salem in Tamilnadu his father moved to Chennai on a job transfer,
where he decided to settle down with his family. While Rajesh was still in college, his father
passed away after a sudden heart attack leaving the responsibility of bringing
up the family on his young shoulders.
With
the meager savings that his father had left behind, Rajesh completed his
education, getting a B.Com degree. He took up a job in an automobile spare
parts company, as an assistant.
While
working and looking after his family he also completed a part time MBA course which
helped him to better his prospects in the company.
Since
his orthodox mother refused to send his sister Radha out to college, he
encouraged her to get a degree through a correspondence course. Not being interested in studies, she did not
complete the course but was happy helping her mother in the household work.
In
due course, Rajesh married Jaya, a distant relative from Mysore, who quickly adjusted to her new joint
family environment. Though she was
irritated by her mother-in-law following difficult rituals every day, she learnt to live with the
problem, in the interest of peace in the family. Besides, arrival of two children in quick succession kept her busy bringing
them up, while mother-in-law and Radha took care of the house. In a way it suited her because the captive
help at home gave her time to pursue her
interests in writing and music. But soon
a marriage proposal for Radha was to destroy this convenient arrangement
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While
Radha was growing in age, all efforts of Rajesh to get a suitable alliance for
marriage, was proving to be futile. A
short dimunitive girl, fair but skinny, Radha could not be considered a beautiful
girl. She did not make friends
easily. She was more comfortable
pottering around the house than going out with friends and having fun.
From
the time she turned 18, Rajesh had been trying to get her married. He passed Radha’s horoscope to friends and
relatives. He even advertised in the
local newspapers & community magazines.
Got
hundreds of horoscopes. Either the
horoscope did not match or the prospective bride groom did not find Radha
impressive. Repeated rejections in the
marriage market, was only adding to Radha’s low self esteem and consequent
health problems creating avoidable tension in the family.
Radha
was nearing 30 and when the family was losing hope of her marriage prospects, a
letter Rajesh received from one Mr. Gopal, proved to be a silver lining in an
otherwise gloomy situation.
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From
the letter, Rajesh learnt that Gopal was a 45 year old bachelor, who claimed
that he had a good job as a Manager, in a good company in Delhi, drawing a five figure salary. He mentioned that because of family reasons
he had not married so far but was now ready.
He had come across Radha’s details from a community magazine and was keen
to come to Chennai for the girl seeing ceremony.
Though
the age difference bothered him, prodded by his ailing mother who was keen to see her
daughter settled in life, he responded positively to Gopal.
A
date and time was fixed. Gopal turned up
alone for the girl seeing ceremony. When
questioned, he dismissed the point as irrelevant and said that he was old enough to know what he wanted.
He
was medium built, balding but otherwise came across as a decent, albeit a bit
arrogant human being. To the surprise of
Rajesh and his family, Gopal expressed his willingness to take Radha as his
wife, immediately. And he insisted on
fixing up the month and date of the wedding straight away.. When Rajesh again brought up the question
about Gopal’s relatives, he said he has no relatives but if Rajesh wanted to verify his credentials he can contact his
office. He gave his office address and
contact numbers and left for Delhi
informing Rajesh that if he does not receive a confirmation from him within 10
days, he would look elsewhere for an
alliance.
Rajesh
was confused. After waiting for so many
years, he did not want Radha to get into a bad marriage. In any case, he contacted one of his cousins
in Delhi, requesting him to go to Gopal’s office to verify his claim. Within a couple of days the cousin confirmed
that Gopal was a highly respected Manager in the company. Though he had a good future, nobody seemed to
know anything about Gopal’s family as he was an introvert and did not mix with anyone.
He was very good in his job and that was it.
When
he shared the letter with his family both his mother and sister were very keen
to proceed in the matter. Radha,
particularly was very keen and told Rajesh that she was ready to take the
risk. There was a sense of desperation
in her voice. She was keen to get
married and get out from her brother’s house, where she felt she was becoming a
burden.
So
the decision was made. The marriage was
held in Rajesh’s house in a simple ceremony to which only a handful of very
close relatives were invited. Absence of
anyone from Gopal’s side at the marriage was too conspicous to be missed by
everyone present.
The
very next day Gopal left with Radha for Delhi
leaving behind his Delhi
residence address.
Though
Rajesh and family felt a bit relieved, he was not sure if he had done the right thing in marrying of his sister to a
total stranger without any family. The
waiting for news from Radha started.
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When
he did not receive any further communication
from Radha for 5 months Rajesh
decided to make a trip to Delhi. Since
this was a surprise trip he did not inform Radha or Gopal that he was coming.
From
the station he went straight to the apartment complex where Gopal was supposed
to be staying. He found the door of
Gopal’s flat locked from outside. When
he tried ringing the calling bell of the
neighbouring flat, there was no response.
He took an auto rickshaw to see Gopal at his office.
While
waiting at the reception of Gopal’s office, all kinds of thoughts went through
Rajesh’s mind. An unexplainable knot was
forming in his stomach. Soon he was
called into Gopal’s cabin.
Gopal
did not seem to be happy to see Rajesh.
He was offended that Rajesh had come to spy on him. He made it very clear to Rajesh that Radha
was his responsibility and that he will look after her well on his terms He did not want anybody to interfere with his
life. He refused to allow Rajesh from
seeing Radha but promised that Rajesh will soon hear from Radha. Not knowing what else to do Rajesh returned
to Chennai with a heavy heart .
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Within a week a letter arrived from Radha. Rajesh opened the letter and began to read it
aloud loud so that his mother could also listen.
Dear
Anna,
I
understand that you visited my husband in his office and wanted to see me. I am sorry that my husband does not like to
have anything to do with any relatives, however close they are. That is why I never responded to any of your
letters. But he is keeping me
happy. Please do not make any more
efforts to contact me or visit me. It
will only make my husband unhappy. Since
I have a caring husband I would like to lead my life on his terms. Hope you will understand.
Radha.
The
tone of the letter without any recognition of the feelings of her family
members, surprised Rajesh. Since Radha
seemed to be very clear in her mind about her stand Rajesh and Jaya decided to
slowly reconcile themselves to Radha’s
fate. Further within a month of
receiving the letter from Radha, Rajesh’s mother passed away. So he was spared the possible pestering from
his mother about Radha’s welfare. Subsequently he did make a couple of attempts
to reach Radha but found that Gopal had changed both his job and residence.
Radha was completely lost to the family.
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It was more than 25 years, since he had lost
touch with Radha, when a telephone call from his sister-in-law, provided a
window of opportunity to learn about Radha.
“Hi
Rajesh! Guess who called me today” , it
was Geetha’s excited voice on the phone.
“How
do I know? You got the call”
Geetha
responded, “it was your long lost sister
Radha’s son!”
Rajesh
now could not hide his own excitement.
“Really,
how did this happen? Where is Radha now? What is her son’s name? What is he doing?”
Rajesh
started bombarding Geetha with questions.
“While
going through my facebook page yesterday I saw a notification from my friend
that she came across a message from one of her facebook friends called Rohit
Gopal looking for contact details of his uncle Rajesh Mudaliar. Since my friend knows that I have a brother-in-law
named Rajesh Mudaliar she forwarded the message to me. Within a couple of hours of my response to
the message from Radha’s son, Rohit
called me!”
“Is
Radha alive? How is she now? How did Gopal allow Rohit to take this
initiative?” Rajesh could not wait till Geetha completed her story.
“Rohit
is 22 years old young man, a Commerce graduate, who is working in a private
company. He lost his father recently. It is only after the mourning period was over that Radha told him about her
own family and how his father had banned her from having any communication with her near and dear ones, during his life
time. Rohit on his own took the
initiative of locating his uncle through the facebook.
“Geetha,
please give me his phone number. I want
to talk to him immediately”. The urgency in Rajesh`s voice was understandable.
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Exactly
a month later, it was celebrations time at Rajesh’s home. When Radha and Rohit
arrived at their home in Chennai, there was a lot of hugging and kissing. Rajesh was happy to see that Radha looked
prosperous – she had put on weight and with graying hair near her temples she looked quite dignified. Rohit was fair, tall and handsome young
man. When Rajesh thought of his old
mother who would have been happy to see her daughter doing well in life, tears
welled up in his eyes!
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