Thursday, July 11, 2024

A fun event and a spiritual talk at Nana Nani!

The Phase 4 of Nana Nani is blessed with very talented people. Many writers, singers, dancers, speakers are scholars in different subjects. Some of them take the initiative to mastermind interesting programmes and present them at the state-of-the-art auditorium in the Club House to the delight of an appreciative audience. One such programme masterminded by the Vijaya-Vasanthi duo ( Popularly known as V2 in the community) was held on 9th July. It was an unusual concept where the programme started with songs invoking gods with relevant commentary preceding the songs by Vijaya and Vasanthi followed by chanting of slokas by Vedic Scholars. The programme ended with some members singing Hindi and Tamil film songs accompanied by a Karaoke facility. The last peppy number witnessed many in the audience, young and old,  getting on the stage and dancing,  shaking whatever body part they could shake. While all the performers were very good, two singers stood out. Octogenarian Radha Natarajan  belting out a popular and difficult song on Muruga by K.B.Sundarambal in her stentorian voice. If you closed the eyes and listened to the song, it was as if Sundarambal singing and not Radha.  Meera Kumar, a popular dancer in the community displayed her ability to sing Tamil film songs. It was her first attempt at singing. Her melodious rendering of the song `Vaseegara` from the film `Minnale`  made the audience demand an encore from her. The entire programme had the resourceful A/V expert in the community  Krishna Kumar, projecting appropriate and interesting visuals to accompany each song in the background.  

Congratulations to the VV duo for one more innovative  programme enjoyed thoroughly by the packed audience in the hall.

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A surprise request from the PRO saw me acting as an MC at a meeting held on 10th July, to introduce a book titled `Vivekachudamani` authored by Dr. Mrs. Prabha Anant.  Chief Guest was Dr.Prabhakar  of Bharatiya Vidya Bhavan. The  meeting was  attended by a modest gathering. As I mentioned in my vote of thanks both the scholarly speakers have sown a seed in my mind about going spiritual! For a person who has been always spirited but never spiritual, it is going to be challenging!

 

 

Saturday, July 6, 2024

Stories around the club house at Nana Nani

 The lobby and the veranda outside the dining hall where residents gather before the appointed meal times is where you are likely to meet old friends or make new friends.

 It was the first time I was visiting the dining hall in the Club House complex of Nana Nani where I had just moved. While waiting for the doors of the dining hall to open, I saw a lady who looked familiar. The lady was also staring at me. I remembered that for a short period, she was a member of my Rotary club in Chennai, 30 years ago. I, however, could not remember her name. But she remembered my name and introduced herself. She and her husband became my new friends with whom I have become close in Nana Nani.

 During meal times at the dining hall, I try to sit at different tables allowing me to make new friends. Once the gentleman sitting opposite me stared at me and started describing an old friend he used to know in Chennai whom I resembled. He couldn`t immediately recall the name. When I introduced myself and assured him that it was me he was describing, he was pleasantly surprised. When he mentioned his name I could relate to the incidents in Chennai he narrated. We have become good friends since then.

 Another long-time resident, my namesake, recognized me the first time I met him, claiming he knew me well from my school days in Matunga, Bombay. Though his face looked familiar, I could not place him. We both could not remember where we had met. After two months of scratching our respective brains, we still could not remember the place where we had met first. One day when he mentioned the name of my friend whom he used to visit in the Chawl complex where I was staying, it struck a chord. I realised that I used to meet this gentleman in the company of my good friend. Since then, this gentleman has also become my good friend.

I have made numerous friends here who are either relatives of friends I know or friends of my friends or friends of my relatives. I have already mentioned about a group of friends I meet in the evenings for gupshup. Slowly but surely I am getting integrated into this friendly community in Phase 4 of Nana Nani.

 

 Like many other octogenarians, I too have a problem remembering names & faces. Many of the residents have similar features landing me in embarrassing situations. Whenever I sit with strangers at the dining table I have the habit of introducing myself. In the last four months, at least four people have told me that I had already introduced myself and they know me. Making me squirm with embarrassment.

 In an earlier posting, I have already written about the new pair of Chappals I lost outside the clubhouse of N& N a month ago. This time I was the guilty party in the missing chappal story of a good friend. I was sitting with some friends in the dining hall during breakfast time. One day this friend sitting opposite me was delighted to announce that he found his missing chappals in the same place where he had left them the previous day. I sheepishly confessed to him that it was me who had by mistake walked away with his chappals in place of my similar-looking chappals after breakfast and replaced them quietly during lunch, without knowing that it was his chappals. We had a hearty laugh. I told my friend that I was not as lucky as I never got back my new pair of chappals which I lost outside the clubhouse. However, another pair of chappals similar to mine had been lying like two orphans outside the clubhouse for more than a month unclaimed by the original owner. The admin guys removed them recently.

 Watch out for many more interesting stories from Nana Nani!

Saturday, June 29, 2024

Good Bye Rotary!

Today (30th June 2024) is my last day as a Rotarian. From tomorrow I will become an ex-Rotarian.  I bid goodbye to Southerners, members of the Rotary Club of Madras South ((RCMS), the second oldest club in Chennai, where I was a member for the last 47 years. Goodbye to Rotary as I don`t intend to join any Rotary club in Coimbatore where I am settled now.  While I shared the details of my deep involvement with RCMS in an earlier posting, this article is an attempt to record some useful lessons I learned as a Rotarian to benefit young Rotarians or those who want to join  Rotary;

 When you join a Rotary Club you become a part of an international service organization with members spread worldwide. You are privileged to be a Rotarian because you are a leader in your chosen vocation.

Though the Rotary motto is `Service above self`, remember your family comes first, followed by your vocation and only then  Rotary.

Rotary helps improve your social standing besides offering opportunities to serve society through different avenues of services.

Join Rotary only if you have the time and resources but don't expect any rewards immediately in terms of new business opportunities  etc. First participate in the activities which interest you with total commitment. The rewards will be the satisfaction you get in successfully implementing a project and the appreciation you get from fellow Rotarians. Participate in all fellowship activities, especially family get-togethers,  outstation trips or any group activities.

Participation in community service activities and fellowship activities helps you to bond with other members leading to some of them becoming your lifelong friends.  These friends will be available to you in your hours of crisis and could become a part of your support system.

When you are running your own business or heading a company as an employee you are looked up as a boss who must be obeyed. It is different when you become the President of a club. The leadership training that Rotary offers is unique. You cannot order people to work for you. You have to persuade them to help you in implementing your dream projects. Remember they are all leaders in their vocations and must be treated as equals and not as subordinates.

Meticulous planning of events, finding the right person for the right job, empowering  them, and following a democratic process in decision-making are secrets of successful Presidents

Even If you have finished your term as President, you can continue to offer help to ruling Presidents. But don`t try to force your ideas on them but support them in whatever way you can. Allow young Rotarians to experiment with new ideas. Never underestimate the power of youth. As a senior, you must know when to let go and allow the younger generation to take over.

Active involvement in Rotary at the District and International levels helps to enlarge your network of friends, which enables you to help people in need.

If you aspire to move up the ladder in the Rotary world and want to become a District Governor or a Rotary International Director, remember you need deep pockets besides associates who can help you run your business when you are busy with Rotary.

Enjoy Rotary as I did for the last 47 years. I am leaving this great organization with a sense of satisfaction that I could contribute my bit to my club and in turn receive the love and affection of families of  Southerners. Some of my best friends today are Southerners- present or past!

 

Thursday, June 20, 2024

A singing poet-- Isaikavi Ramanan

A person capable of applying his attention in many directions is referred to as Astavadhanii.  The title would certainly fit T.A. Venkateswaran, popularly known as Isaikkavi Ramanan. who has enriched the world of performing arts with his talents as a thinker, writer, poet, actor, speaker, singer, photographer and performer

I first met Ramanan at a Madras Book Club meeting where he was in conversation with a professor from Pondicherry on his book on Mahakavi Bharathi`s life in Pondy. Ramanan was very articulate and impressed me with not only his knowledge of Bharathi but also his impeccable English. I came to know that he is a bilingual writer and speaker. He is as comfortable giving a talk in English or writing in English as he is in Tamil.  From a successful corporate honcho to a popular performer on the stage, Ramanan has come a long way in 20 years. He turned 70 on 30th March this year. I decided to explore his reinvention story for the readers of  Madras Musings.

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Ramanan`s late father, Sri T.V.Anantaramaseshan was a scholar in English and Sanskrit. An M.A. (Hons) with a gold medal from the Presidency College, Madras.  he taught Economics at Loyola College (1954 – 63) before he joined The Hindu as Assistant Editor, where he worked for 23 years. Later he was associated   with the evening paper News today. An expert in temple/sculptural architecture, he was instrumental in conducting 25 Kumbhabhishekam. He composed 27 Suprabhatams on deities from Kanyakumari to Jageshwar. No wonder Ramanan has his penchant for  spiritualism in his blood. Ramanan  also has imbibed the zest for life and enthusiasm from his 95 years old mother Savithri, who now lives with him.

Sandwiched  between three elder sisters and one younger sister who were all super singers, Ramanan obviously had singing  in his blood. However, only his youngest sister pursued a career in singing.

While in  Ramakrishna Mission Boys High School, Bazululla Road, in Chennai where he completed his SSLC, he  used to participate in literary competitions. The first time he ever received a prize was when he was in his third or fourth class for singing Bharathi’s Vellai Thamarai. He  fondly remembers receiving two volumes of Eesop’s fables (in Tamil) from Sri Parali Su Nellaiappar, Bharathi’s close associate. 

Recalling his student days Ramanan says, “For a poor student to whom even simple arithmetic was a horrible nightmare, studying Commerce in A M Jain College, Meenambakkam, was nothing less than a disaster. Most of my class hours were spent under the trees, penning poems or winning prizes in debates, oratorical competitions, essay writing, mono acting, recitation and so on. I was the Secretary of the Commerce Association once and Fine Arts Association later during which time, I could invite Kannadasan to our college” His tryst with Kannadasan and his songs probably started from that time.

Ramanan says that he never had any academic dreams, though he was always a dreamer. While poetry enticed him on one side, he was a natural mind watcher too. There is a vision that has stayed with him since he was 10 or so – that of an angler with a brown hat, reclining on a tree, facing a jungle brook, watching the flow of water silently.

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He joined The Hindu on October 1, 1977 as a Sales Representative in Chennai. When he became a Sales Officer he had  to travel a lot, often going on tour for three weeks a month. Apart from his travels, whenever he was in HQ, he was the official typist for the Circulation Department, packed/loaded newspaper parcels, worked for several nights in the packing and dispatch section and  distributed the newspaper in the early hours. Life was tough. The brighter side was that he saw a lot of movies, visited several temples and picked up working knowledge of  Kannada and Telugu.

In 1989, he was promoted as Regional Manager, Visakhapatnam where he  launched the Vizag edition. As a Regional Manager, he won several awards for achieving sales targets and also for his impressive presentations at the company`s annual conferences. Managers chosen for other regions used to be sent to Vizag for training.

Ramanan says, “I was instrumental in introducing an important software system for the Advertising department. I also played a big part in opening up The Hindu for regional and local advertisements like regional front page solus, ear panels, local supplements etc.”

However Poetry never left him. It provided the psychological relief and also the fillip to his enthusiasm for work.

 What makes him invoke goddess parashakthi and his guru in most of his talks? What was the trigger that made him quit his job and get fully involved in creative pursuits?

Ramanan says,“I was in my ninth class when Sri Ma Vi Raghavan, our Tamil teacher recited a poem of Bharathi. Something hit me. Though I did not understand even the basic meaning, I was overwhelmed. It was in 1971 October that I started writing poems and a few years later, I started composing songs. Sometime between 1974 and 1976, on a sunny afternoon, I had a strange experience which happened in a flash. I had a vision of Bharathi and Ma Kaali and I felt as though something invaded my consciousness. Parasakthi and Bharathi entered me together I should say. She is a palpable, living reality to me”

His quest for Truth, took him to several Gurus until he found the right one in Satguru Sri K Sivananda Murty of Bheemunipatnam near Vizag. who took him on several yathras. Ramanan has so far visited the Himalayas 36 times.

“If I can say that my life is over and my living continues, I owe it all to my Guru. He cured my psychological injuries through his love, taught me the real history of this great nation, made me understand the depth of our Dharma and granted several deep spiritual experiences.”

"As the inner call was getting louder and as I realized that my slogging in a career was not worth all that martyrdom, I quit my job on 30th March 2005 with nothing else in my hand.”

Ramanan was 51 years old when he launched his new life as a performer. In the last 19 years his fan base has widened to not only within India but has also spread  across the world. Because as a public speaker Ramanan provokes, stimulates and entertains -- whether he speaks on literature, music, cinema, theatre, spirituality or culture. Ramanan’s voice rings out with bell-like clarity, every syllable distinct.

“I am more a talker than a speaker,” says Ramanan. “My talks are different, the audience do not feel any distance between them and me.”  The talks are different also because he frequently bursts into songs -- or into flowery lyric or infectious rhyme, His style is conversational, his tone is positive, he has a light witty touch. The audience is kept in  good humour and glued to its seats.

Over the years he has addressed members of literary or cultural associations, music sabhas, students of MBA or engineering, schoolchildren, parents, corporates. The topics are diverse too:  Thirukkural, Bharatiar, Kannadasan’s film songs, spiritual discourses. And self-improvement topics such as  communication skills, positive attitude, personal management and conflict management. 

He has been on lecture tours to the US, Canada, Singapore,  Malaysia, Abu Dhabi, Muscat and Sri Lanka. He has spoken at temples, university auditoriums, radio stations, the basements of a few houses.

Though he is very popular for his singing, Ramanan says that he has no formal training in music.  He says, “I have imbibed a feel for music from my mother and also sisters. Tunes happen to me though I cannot set my own poems to tunes.  I am spontaneous! Yes, my music is inseparable from my poetry and it is clearly the gift of my Parasakthi. Again, I am not a scholar; not at all a well-read person; I have an intuitive feel for  things, thanks to the blessings of my Guruji. He provides that edge”

Ramanan is also a  prolific  writer. So far he has published  40 books in Tamil,  Five in English. `The Intimate Unknown`, a book in English he wrote about his  Guruji is close to his heart.

In Tamil, his  two books on Kannadasan, one each on Bharathi and Kamban and one titled ‘Pala Mugangal Sila Ninaivugal’ are his favourites. Another book which is popular is his biography on Director K.Balachandar titled `Sigaram`for which he interacted closely with K Balachander for six to eight months. ‘

“Since I refused to accept money from him for the biography, Balachandar  invited me  to act in a serial directed by him . During the shootings he always insisted that I should be given a chair beside him. Till the end, he addressed me as Ramanan Sir,  despite ,my protests.” says Ramanan.

His other publications include 12 books of his poems, 19 books of his essays. He has also translated three books from English to Tamil and one from Tamil to English.

Ramanan has also been an actor on stage as well as on the small screen. He has participated in over 1400 television  programmes, The only movie in which he played a good role did not see the light of day. He has  acted in four serials. The first one was directed by late Sri K Balachandar.

As regards theatre, he acted in a small role in an English play ‘Free Outgoing’ by Creasakthi Dushi, directed by Mahesh Dattani. In Tamil theatre, it was SBS Raman who invited him  to write a play based on his father’s (Sri S Balachander) famous movie ‘Andha Naal’ and also play the lead role in it.

Ramanan has also written and acted as Bharathi in the play “Bharathi Yaar ` which has been staged in several cities in India and abroad.

Ramanan says, “Playing the role of the Mahakavi who died when he was hardly 39 at 70 is indeed challenging” He is also acting as Bharathi in a serial on Bharathi produced by Krishnaswamy Associates, currently being aired on Doordarshan in Tamil.

One of his most popular programme in recent years sponsored by Krishna Sweets and Bharatiya Vidya Bhavan is `Kalangalil Avan Vasantham` , a series on songs of  Kannadasan which has already seen over 100 shows in six years.

Ramanan has received over 45 Awards and recognitions in the last  19 years since he started his new innings as a performer. The prestigious Kalaimamani Award from Tamil Nadu government for the year 2018 was bestowed on him  in 2019

Ramanan says, “I value all of them but the title “Isaikkavi” is the one I cherish most as it has become part of my name. It is special because it was not given by any organization but by my friend  Mahesh Krishnan who  presented me a memento with the inscription “Isaikkavi”, after a talk in English I gave in Los Angeles in 2006."

Anuradha  is the woman behind the successful Ramanan for the last 43 years. He calls her his guardian angel.

 ‘She also has a flair for languages and is very fluent in Tamil, English, Hindi, Telugu and to some extent in Marathi, Kannada and Malayalam too. A thoroughly no-nonsense person, I have never suffered from boredom in married life, thanks to her company”. says Ramanan.

The couple is blessed with twins, Anand and Vikram. Anand  lives in Boston with his wife Priya and children Shivsundar and Aadhya. Vikram lives in Madurai with his wife Deepthi and son Kumara Seshan. Both my sons and daughters in law sing well. So does Kumara Seshan and Aadhya who have  started learning music.

A blessed family indeed!  

A happy, noisy family!” says Ramanan. “I am not special in any way but very fortunate in every way”.

Let us pray that Parashkthi  bestows good health on Ramanan so that he continues to delight his fans with his multiple talents, for years to come!

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday, June 15, 2024

What I miss in Nana Nani!

 It is almost 4 months since I came to stay in Nana Nani, Phase 4 in Coimbatore. Friends have told me that my articles have promoted only the excellent facilities in this retirement community. This article attempts to list the things I miss in Nana Nani.

 While I have made a reasonable number of friends in the community- some of them known to me earlier and many new friends, I have yet to feel a part of a family. I feel close to many but yet not so close. Though I don`t feel like a stranger I do miss the bonding that comes through frequent interactions daily. It happens to me, even today, with my walking friends on the Bessy ( Elliot Beach Road) whenever I am in Chennai. Besides the chance to see the sunrise on the Bay of Bengal and breathe the fresh air, I interact with two sets of friends after finishing my morning walk every day. One set consists of septuagenarians and a couple of octogenarians, many accompanied by their spouses. When there is full attendance there are more than 20 of us. I noticed the number has gone up significantly during my recent trip to Chennai. The group not only exchanges the latest news about happenings in their families and society but also indulges in a lot of leg pulling, cracking jokes, and generally has a hearty laugh. The beach area reverberates with the laughter from this group. It is a really fun time.

 The other group is a little more serious and enjoys the tasty Kumbakonam degree coffee served by the Adyar Saravana Bakery near the beach in Besant Nagar. The discussion here invariably centers around cricket and politics. Velu, the owner of the coffee shop provides customized coffee to the members-- with sugar, half sugar, no sugar, Nattu sugar( Jaggery powder), strong, medium strong, black coffee, etc. Velu`s memory is phenomenal. I really miss Velu`s coffee.

 A brisk walk followed by a dose of hearty laughter and a good cup of filter coffee sets the right tone for the rest of the day for me. I come back fully charged to spend an active day ahead. Though at Nana Nani the morning get-together is not practical because of the fixed breakfast timings, I have noticed smaller groups of residents getting together in the evenings in different locations on the campus. I am also a part of one such males-only group. And the discussions are more serious and less fun. I wished discussions could provoke hearty laughter helping group members to relax. After all, laughter is the best medicine at any age!

 The other aspect in which I am not so happy is in the area of food. While the meals served are generally tasty, the monotony of the predictable menu being served on different days makes me feel less enthusiastic about the food being served- though there are occasional exceptions. As a man from Bombay, I can say with certainty that the cooks in Nana Nani do not know how to make chapatis, particularly what they call phulkas. The chapatis served are not consistent in shape, sometimes half burnt and rubbery.

 As a part of my plan to reduce my Madhya Pradesh (tummy), I have started having only Vegetable soup for dinner, which I cook myself on my Induction stove. Though I am not taking the evening meal served by the management, I have to pay for it. The system of having to pay for the full day`s meal charges even if a resident has only morning coffee is grossly unfair. Hope the management`s promise of introducing the system of `pay for what you eat`, once their centralized kitchen becomes operational, is true.

 Despite some drawbacks, I would consider Phase 4 of Nana Nani, the best of many other Homes that I have visited in Coimbatore, in terms of facilities, activities, and the number of talented residents it has. I am sure I will begin to feel an integral part of this wonderful family soon!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

                                                   What I miss in Nana Nani!

                                                              by R.V.Rajan

It is almost 4 months since I came to stay in Nana Nani, Phase 4 in Coimbatore. Friends have told me that my articles have promoted only the excellent facilities in this retirement community. This article attempts to list the things I miss in Nana Nani.

 

While I have made a reasonable number of friends in the community- some of them known to me earlier and many new friends, I have yet to feel a part of a family. I feel close to many but yet not so close. Though I don`t feel like a stranger I do miss the bonding that comes through frequent interactions daily. It happens to me, even today, with my walking friends on the Bessy ( Elliot Beach Road) whenever I am in Chennai. Besides the chance to see the sunrise on the Bay of Bengal and breathe the fresh air, I interact with two sets of friends after finishing my morning walk every day. One set consists of septuagenarians and a couple of octogenarians, many accompanied by their spouses. When there is full attendance there are more than 20 of us. I noticed the number has gone up significantly during my recent trip to Chennai. The group not only exchanges the latest news about happenings in their families and society but also indulges in a lot of leg pulling, cracking jokes, and generally has a hearty laugh. The beach area reverberates with the laughter from this group. It is a really fun time.

 

The other group is a little more serious and enjoys the tasty Kumbakonam degree coffee served by the Adyar Saravana Bakery near the beach in Besant Nagar. The discussion here invariably centers around cricket and politics. Velu, the owner of the coffee shop provides customized coffee to the members-- with sugar, half sugar, no sugar, Nattu sugar( Jaggery powder), strong, medium strong, black coffee, etc. Velu`s memory is phenomenal. I really miss Velu`s coffee.

 

A brisk walk followed by a dose of hearty laughter and a good cup of filter coffee sets the right tone for the rest of the day for me. I come back fully charged to spend an active day ahead. Though at Nana Nani the morning get-together is not practical because of the fixed breakfast timings, I have noticed smaller groups of residents getting together in the evenings in different locations on the campus. I am also a part of one such males-only group. And the discussions are more serious and less fun. I wished discussions could provoke hearty laughter helping group members to relax. After all, laughter is the best medicine at any age!

 

The other aspect in which I am not so happy is in the area of food. While the meals served are generally tasty, the monotony of the predictable menu being served on different days makes me feel less enthusiastic about the food being served- though there are occasional exceptions. As a man from Bombay, I can say with certainty that the cooks in Nana Nani do not know how to make chapatis, particularly what they call phulkas. The chapatis served are not consistent in shape, sometimes half burnt and rubbery.

 

As a part of my plan to reduce my Madhya Pradesh (tummy), I have started having only Vegetable soup for dinner, which I cook myself on my Induction stove. Though I am not taking the evening meal served by the management, I have to pay for it. The system of having to pay for the full day`s meal charges even if a resident has only morning coffee is grossly unfair. Hope the management`s promise of introducing the system of `pay for what you eat`, once their centralized kitchen becomes operational, is true.

 

Despite some drawbacks, I would consider Phase 4 of Nana Nani, the best of many other Homes that I have visited in Coimbatore, in terms of facilities, activities, and the number of talented residents it has. I am sure I will begin to feel an integral part of this wonderful family soon!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

                                                   What I miss in Nana Nani!

                                                              by R.V.Rajan

It is almost 4 months since I came to stay in Nana Nani, Phase 4 in Coimbatore. Friends have told me that my articles have promoted only the excellent facilities in this retirement community. This article attempts to list the things I miss in Nana Nani.

 

While I have made a reasonable number of friends in the community- some of them known to me earlier and many new friends, I have yet to feel a part of a family. I feel close to many but yet not so close. Though I don`t feel like a stranger I do miss the bonding that comes through frequent interactions daily. It happens to me, even today, with my walking friends on the Bessy ( Elliot Beach Road) whenever I am in Chennai. Besides the chance to see the sunrise on the Bay of Bengal and breathe the fresh air, I interact with two sets of friends after finishing my morning walk every day. One set consists of septuagenarians and a couple of octogenarians, many accompanied by their spouses. When there is full attendance there are more than 20 of us. I noticed the number has gone up significantly during my recent trip to Chennai. The group not only exchanges the latest news about happenings in their families and society but also indulges in a lot of leg pulling, cracking jokes, and generally has a hearty laugh. The beach area reverberates with the laughter from this group. It is a really fun time.

 

The other group is a little more serious and enjoys the tasty Kumbakonam degree coffee served by the Adyar Saravana Bakery near the beach in Besant Nagar. The discussion here invariably centers around cricket and politics. Velu, the owner of the coffee shop provides customized coffee to the members-- with sugar, half sugar, no sugar, Nattu sugar( Jaggery powder), strong, medium strong, black coffee, etc. Velu`s memory is phenomenal. I really miss Velu`s coffee.

 

A brisk walk followed by a dose of hearty laughter and a good cup of filter coffee sets the right tone for the rest of the day for me. I come back fully charged to spend an active day ahead. Though at Nana Nani the morning get-together is not practical because of the fixed breakfast timings, I have noticed smaller groups of residents getting together in the evenings in different locations on the campus. I am also a part of one such males-only group. And the discussions are more serious and less fun. I wished discussions could provoke hearty laughter helping group members to relax. After all, laughter is the best medicine at any age!

 

The other aspect in which I am not so happy is in the area of food. While the meals served are generally tasty, the monotony of the predictable menu being served on different days makes me feel less enthusiastic about the food being served- though there are occasional exceptions. As a man from Bombay, I can say with certainty that the cooks in Nana Nani do not know how to make chapatis, particularly what they call phulkas. The chapatis served are not consistent in shape, sometimes half burnt and rubbery.

 

As a part of my plan to reduce my Madhya Pradesh (tummy), I have started having only Vegetable soup for dinner, which I cook myself on my Induction stove. Though I am not taking the evening meal served by the management, I have to pay for it. The system of having to pay for the full day`s meal charges even if a resident has only morning coffee is grossly unfair. Hope the management`s promise of introducing the system of `pay for what you eat`, once their centralized kitchen becomes operational, is true.

 

Despite some drawbacks, I would consider Phase 4 of Nana Nani, the best of many other Homes that I have visited in Coimbatore, in terms of facilities, activities, and the number of talented residents it has. I am sure I will begin to feel an integral part of this wonderful family soon!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday, June 8, 2024

An action-packed journey as a Rotarian (1977-2024)

As I retire from Rotary Club of Madras South on 30th June, 2024, after 47 memorable years as a Southerner, some thoughts on my journey as a Rotarian

I have mentioned in many forums that for a boy from the chawls of Bombay, Round Table India, a youth organization opened up a whole new world, and Rotary, considered the midwife of the Round Table movement, helped me enlarge my network of friends. I was introduced to both organizations by my good friend (late) R.Desikan, a well known consumer activist - a Past President of Round Table India and the Charter President of the Rotary Club of Madras Adyar.
I joined the Rotary Club of Madras South in December 1977, just a day before the Rotary District Conference held at the Anna University campus. Since the club had another member with the advertising classification, I was given the classification of Audio Visual. As I was extremely busy with the Round Table, I could not participate actively in Rotary between 1977 and 1984. However, I was happy to do simple assignments given to me by the then ruling Presidents of the club.
Silver Jubilee Secretary
When I retired from Round Table in 1984, I was roped in as the Secretary of the club during its Silver Jubilee year 1984-85 with Rtn. B. Gopalswamy as the Silver Jubilee President, I had the opportunity to display my capabilities in the execution of the ambitious programme drawn up by the President and his team for that year. Gopalaswamy was a great leader and motivator!
I remember being actively involved in not just bringing out a Silver Jubilee volume for the club but also producing a 15-minute audio-visual presentation on the 25 years of Rotary Club of Madras South.
The biggest event of the year was the RELF 85, a mega exhibition on Electrical and Electronics arranged at the Congress Grounds in Teynampet, masterminded by the dynamic Rtn.PP Imbichammad (who had just moved to Madras from Bangalore) and chaired by the charismatic Rtn.PP A.N. Srinivasa Rao (of Solidaire TV fame). I was totally involved in organizing the exhibition — an unforgettable learning experience that helped me conduct several exhibitions later. The master checklist which Rtn. Bicha had prepared for RELF 85, which became a manual on exhibitions for me. Like most events in any voluntary organization, RELF 85 also had its ups and downs before it became a resounding success and a trendsetter as a fundraising concept in the Rotary District 320. The club raised over Rs. 5 lakh from the event which was a big amount of money those days. Many other clubs later followed this trend of exhibitions as fundraisers!
Before the end of the Silver Jubilee year, the club decided to utilize the funds raised from RELF 85 by adopting the Tiruvidenthai village near Madras where a historical 2000-year-old Perumal temple is located. The next six years saw the club members, under the chairmanship of Rtn K. Gopalakrishnan, getting involved in several development activities like providing drinking water, building classrooms, a community hall, vocational training etc. All these activities culminated in the ‘Multiprojects Inauguration
Day’ during my year as the President in 1991-92.
Finding in me a willing worker, senior Rotarians in the district promptly roped me in to handle the publicity for the Pulse Polio Programme under the chairmanship of Rtn PP S.L. Chitale, who had initiated the Measles Immunization Programme of the Rotary Club of Madras during his Presidential year. This had snowballed into the massive Pulse Polio Programme of Rotary International, At the District Conference chaired by DG Chidambaram, I was the recipient of the “Paul Harris Fellowship” which the District conferred on me for my contribution to the publicity of the Pulse Polio Programme.
Two unfortunate episodes around this time involving highly respected Rotarians in the District made me lose my respect for them. I became disillusioned with the politics in the district then, ( I understand that it is no different even now) and decided to not accept any positions in the district because of my not-so-flexible value systems! Later when DG Viswam offered me the position of Governor`s Group Representative (GGR), considered a stepping stone to moving up the Rotary ladder then, I politely refused. However, that did not stop me from contributing whatever I could to the activities of the club utilizing my position as an adman and as an organizer.
Rotary One Centre
In 1988, I made a memorable trip to Chicago to visit the Rotary One Centre, the World Headquarters of Rotary International. Prabha and I were taken on a guided tour of the building with several floors and finally reached the office of the President. Unfortunately, the President was away on a tour but fortunately, it allowed me to sit in the President’s chair and take a photograph with Prabha standing behind me. It was a thrilling moment. I recommend that every committed Rotarian visit the headquarters and get to know how much effort the Secretariat puts in to make the jobs of the office bearers at different levels easy by providing relevant guidelines for each position.
At the Helm of RCMS
It was in 1990 that I was installed as the thirty-first President of Rotary Club of Madras South by PDG, Prof. S.R. Govindarajan, father-in-law of Rtn. (late) M.K. Kannan of our club. I took over from Rtn. R. Ramamurthy at a glittering function held at Hotel Ambassador Pallava. I had done my homework and not only made an AV presentation on the proposed activities during my year of office as President but also distributed two booklets produced at my cost. One was the Roster of members and another containing details of all the planned activities for the year indicating the dates and targets! This became a trend with other incoming Presidents merging the two books into one.
Apart from the routine activities, the highlight of the year was Ronex 91, an exhibition on environment-related topics held at Anna University helping our club launch the first-ever industry/academic joint activity. This fund-raising event had a seminar, an exhibition, a walkathon and an entertainment programme, all geared to raise awareness of the environment among the Chennai public. Rtn. K.S. Jayaraman, with his abiding interest in the subject, was a great help! Before the end of the year, the club announced a joint project with Anna University called Rotary-Danaberg Energy Centre. The centre was supposed to be a Zero Energy Centre to be run by non-conventional energy inside the campus.
I introduced the concept of Fellowship Basket, an idea that I had used during my Round Table days, where a basket containing fruits or gifts would be carried by a Rotarian and handed over to another at a pre-arranged tea or dinner get-together organized by the recipient.
During my Presidency, I also started a permanent secretariat in my office at L.R.Swamy Building, with a full-time assistant to manage the affairs of the club. The secretariat was to have an Archive to store records and old photographs collected from members. I also managed to get two cupboards sponsored by Rotarians and collected quite a few photographs and files. My office naturally became a beehive of activities, famous for the Bonda and coffee I served during committee meetings.
Unfortunately, this initiative was scuttled by the President who followed me.
Operation New Blood
While I was content with the role I was playing in Rotary, I was also beginning to feel that the Club was slowing down in terms of activities and there was no effort to rope in young blood, There was a crisis of leadership. The average age of the club was 65. It was the last straw when one year, due to a lack of potential leaders, a past President agreed to step in and function as the Treasurer of the club. As a proactive person, I felt I must do something, instead of simply grumbling about it. When Rtn. A.G. Shankar took over as the President with Rtn. Sriprakash as his Secretary, I volunteered to be the New Membership Convenor under the Club Service Director.
I chalked out a plan for inducting new members who were less than fifty of age to help the club in bringing down the average age of the club. I decided to target ex-tablers who I felt would be ideal material for the membership of a Rotary Club. As a marketing strategy, I called the whole project Operation New Blood and started aggressively promoting the same at all meetings, fellowship get-togethers, etc, Out of the 25 proposals I received I recommended the induction of only 10 candidates who were carefully chosen after I ascertained that they satisfied all the criteria laid down by me. I am glad to report that all the members inducted under Operation New Blood , in due course, became Presidents of the club.
The biggest and most memorable event in my life as a Southerner happened in 2010 when I volunteered to be the Chairman of the Golden Jubilee Committee, with Rtn Bowmick as the Golden Jubilee president of our club. The year witnessed multiple activities, meticulously planned by me and executed with help from talented Southerners. A Kickoff night, a mega fundraising event in association with Inner Wheel Club of Madras South held at the University Centenary hall, Fifty projects in the fiftieth year masterminded by Rtn. PP. B.B.Venkadesh, a coffee table book chronicling the first 50 years of RCMS edited by Rtn PP S.R.Madhu and a Grand Finale held at the then iconic Taj Coromandel hotel were the main highlights of the year.
For the first 30 years my advertising agency had the privilege of helping almost every President in all their publicity efforts.
Once I turned 70, I decided not to accept any statutory obligations which meant I did not accept any positions in any organization. However, I continued enjoying the fellowship of Southerners. How can I forget the love and affection showered on me in abundance by the families of Southerners? Many of my good friends in life today are Southerners or ex-Southerners. I am not naming names as the list is long.
As I will be leaving the Rotary Club of Madras South ( because of my shifting base to Coimbatore) on 30th June 2024, after 47 memorable years as a Southerner, I would like to convey my sincere thanks to every Southerner who has touched my life one way or the other.
(Photos attached taken at a meeting of RCMS on 8th June, where I was honoured with a memento for my long and eventful association with the club)