Saturday, November 27, 2021

My association with the creative world.

Though I was born in a village called Nerkuppai in Ramanad District in 1942, I was brought up in Bombay where I lived for the first 29 years of my life. I did both my schooling and college and started my career in advertising in Bombay. My association  with the creative world started from my school days.

  I remember when I was in the 9th standard, my school, South Indian Welfare Society`s High School moved from Matunga to its own premises in Wadala which was a 30 to 40 minute walk from my house in Matunga. A group of us from the neighbourhood  would  walk every day to the school. This enlarged my circle of friends which was earlier restricted to only friends who lived in the chawl complex where I was living.

 I became a part of a  group of bright students bursting with  creative energy! It was a multitalented group that wanted to participate in extra curricular activities like writing, singing, acting, drama etc. But the school management was against the idea. I remember the Lady Principal of the school  telling the students “Don’t waste your time on ` dramas and shamas`. Education is the only thing which will give you a good career!” So she banned all extra curricular activities in the school except the mandatory sports activities.

 My group began to feel frustrated. Some of us joined the “Bombay Tamil Sangam” as student members as it  was encouraging students with talent in writing, debating, etc. I also mooted the idea of starting a Students Cultural Association through which we could express our creative talents outside the school. Thus was born the “Manavar Kalai Arangam”(MKA) with the motto ‘To encourage ourselves’ and I became its  Founder Secretary. All those interested in creative pursuits from senior  classes became members of MKA. We started staging plays, some  scripted by me. At the age of 16, I was given the role of the father of the hero. There were other character roles with minimum dialogues that I donned during that period.

 Apart from staging plays and conducting musical programmes, we also ran a manuscript magazine called ‘Kalai’ (Art) in which some of us contributed stories and poems. I wrote  short stories and plays  in Tamil. A friend, who had excellent hand writing and who could draw illustrations for the articles, produced the magazine! The one and only copy was circulated among all those interested friends!

 While in school I also passed the Govt. Commercial Diploma in drawing which helped me hone my skills as an artist. This would help me later in my advertising career. Thanks to a  box camera gifted to me by my uncle, I was also trying my hand at amateur photography — limited though by the persistent cash crunch at home! This interest in photography would later lead me to be involved in the production of scores of A/V presentations for voluntary organizations like Round Table and Rotary to raise funds for their projects. Those days  A/V presentations were mainly  slide/tape presentations. I would write the script, shoot the slides myself and put together the presentation using professional  voices. Even today I like to be involved in some A/V presentations to keep in touch with my interest in the subject. The last  AV I produced was on my good friend Charukesi. The six minute video film giving his life story in brief was presented at a special function at Tag Centre to commemorate his first death anniversary in January, 2020..

 My involvement with the stage

 Though MKA was wound up after the  group left the school, we decided to start an amateur stage group called Fine Arts Creations. My friend Raghavan,considered Nagesh of Bombay because of his thin stature and his ability to act like Nagesh on the stage became a key figure of this group. One of our earliest plays was a one act play titled ‘Pushpalatha’ written by Director K. Balachander. At that time he had just got into directing plays. I remember visiting Madras with Raghavan in 1962  to get  KB`s  permission to stage the play in Bombay. In another play, I donned the role of Munuswamy a rowdy with one Muniamma as his  wife. For the role of Muniamma we had to get a female artist from Madras, as no Bombay girls agreed to act in our plays. My performance as a rowdy in a lungi with a menacing  mustache speaking the Madras Bashai was one of the highlights of the play and one of the best roles I donned in my life. I felt elated  that I also had a lady accomplice in the play. It also led to my being invited  to take up roles in plays staged by Matunga Dramatic Society (MDS) headed by S.R.Kasturi,who was then  the Secretary of the prestigious Shanmugananda Sabha of Bombay. MDS was the most famous amateur dramatic society in Bombay at the time which staged a couple social plays every year. However the play on Saint Thyagaraja featuring S.R.Kasturi in the main role became one of the best plays staged by the group. It was awesome to see Kasturi  sing the sage`s  Keerthanais live on the stage accompanied by live orchestra. I must confess that I picked up some knowledge of Thyagaraja Keerthanais thanks to my involvement with the play.

 I can never forget the three bit roles I played in the  play .In the opening scene depicting Vaikundam I  would appear as Naradhar.  In the middle of the play in a court  scene of the king I appeared  as a minister and in a scene in the last part of the play where dacoits  attack Thiagaraja and his entourage, I was  one of the dacoits. It was fun donning different make ups for each of the role but for the discomfort of wearing the special costumes and other items like beard and moustache etc. hired for the roles. They were not only stinking but I found it very difficult to control  the itching sensation that the false beard and moustaches  provoked. The play  was not only staged at the prestigious Shanmugananda Sabha in Bombay a couple of times but also was  taken to  other suburbs in Bombay besides cities like Nagpur & Ahmedabad. Being with the group was lot of fun.  Since I had a problem of memorizing long dialogues I was denied meaty roles by the director.  However I enjoyed whatever role I played and tried to give my best performance. Once I got into advertising and became busy 24x7 I had to give up my interest in acting on stage.

However I continued to nurture my passion for acting even after I left Bombay. Acting  was  still in my blood. Since moving to Chennai  in 1974, I have acted in a couple of  advertising  & short films. JS films, a joint venture of director Jayendra and the award winning cinematographer P.C.Sriram, was  producing a lot of memorable advertising films in the nineties. I was offered a double role of a father and a grandfather in an ad film for Shriram Chit Funds. I was thrilled when at the end of the shooting , P.C.Sriram complimented  me for being an` one take artist`. There would be heavy schedule of the  Shriram  Chit spots promoting their new series of chits in Sun TV for two weeks preceding the  Tamil New Year and  Navarathri featuring  me and another well known actress. During those weeks whenever I went out  for shopping I would be recognized and people would stop me and ask me if I was the same person who appeared in the Shriram spots.  I used to enjoy the mini celebrity status during the  periods  when the spots were being  telecast for  seven years in a row.

Recently I also played a cameo role in a short film in Tamil based on my wife`s novella `Thayumanaval`, released at the Tag Centre on the occasion of my wife Prabha`s  5th death anniversary. It was the role of a henpecked husband without any dialogues. But I think I was noticed for my performance because my ability to use my eyes and face to depict the moods  the scenes demanded. The latest exciting project  I  am eagerly looking  forward to is  the Fun Web Series titled `Not Out` directed by my favourite director  Usha Rajeshwari,  targeting senior citizens in which I will be playing the main role.  It was  fun acting for the promo video of the film. Unfortunately because of  the restrictions imposed by the pandemic the project has been delayed.

Interestingly during the 45 years of my life as an adman running ad agencies, I never produced any campaigns  myself. But the deep understanding of the different aspects of the creative world helped me to motivate and get the best out of some of the great creative minds I worked with. It was a long but an enjoyable journey in the creative world the  memories of  which I continue to cherish even today!

( This article, translated into Tamil, is featured in this year`s ( 2021) Diwali Issue of Ladies Special magazine,  a popular Tamil monthly with the dynamic Girija Raghavan as the editor)

Tuesday, November 16, 2021

Entertaining guests at home - the new normal!

This year my son  decided to organize a dinner for the family members numbering 14 adults plus kids on the Diwali night at our home in Sastri Nagar. As I was getting tensed up about the arrangements for the dinner, he made it clear that he would take care of everything and asked me not to worry. Being a ‘tension party’, I was worried that even at 6.30 pm there was no sign of any activity – not even laying the table with necessary crockeries required for serving the dinner. What about the menu for the evening dinner? When I asked my son  he said he was waiting for all the guests to arrive and order the food of their choice  on swiggy/zomato/dunzo etc. I was shocked- it was going to be  a multi cuisine  `A la carte` dinner for the guests. Will it work? Will all the items arrive on time?

As the guests were arriving, while  my son was checking their  preference for food,

my daughter in law was busy serving the guests soft drinks and ready snacks. When my siblings said that they cannot take any item  with onion or garlic because it was the evening of Amavasya, he had a ready solution for them-Jain Thalis from the Agarwals. While, others had ordered for items ranging from Fried rice,  Cauliflower Manchurian, Veg .Noodles , Paneer butter masala with parathas and so on  my son in law & I got masala dosas  from A2B ( Adyar Ananda Bhavan ). All the items were delivered by the service providers within 45 minutes of placing the order on line.

While I was wondering how these items were  going to be consumed by guests, out came the disposable dinner plates and  water cups. The serving spoons and table spoons from the kitchen were also out in a jiffy and  the items were piled up on the dining table without any order and the guests were asked to have a go. The very senior citizens managed to squeeze some space on the table so that they could sit and eat and others picked up their items and moved to the drawing room. Though every guest got  the item of their choice, it did not stop them from taking  a bite or two from the items ordered by others. Every one seemed  to be enjoying the dinner as most of them got what they wanted and more!

In my long working career,  my wife and  I have organized several dinner get togethers for guests ranging from 10 to 30 people. The tension of hosting the dinner will start from the morning and will continue till every guest left home having enjoyed a home cooked meal served with a lot of love and affection. When we tried to get outside food on a couple of occasions , we were not happy. But today`s youngsters have  their own priorities. They don`t believe in wasting time and efforts on things they can get at the press of a button. Ultimately what matters is that the guests are  happy. My family members, majority of whom are senior citizens seemed to have enjoyed the dinner on the Diwali night.

I realised that it is time that I learn to live with the `New Normal` while entertaining guests at home!

Tuesday, November 2, 2021

A Computer semi-literate

I consider myself semi-literate when it comes to computer knowledge. While I have enough knowledge to take care of my requirements as a writer and also deal with my mails, anything beyond I am at a loss. Though the computer is the most user-friendly gadget invented, my problem is my impatience in dealing with it. When I encounter even the slightest problem while working, I panic and start desperately pressing the buttons on the keyboard resulting in the friendly computer becoming unfriendly.

When I call my tech savvy son to help me out, he would come and click some buttons and presto the computer would get back to normal. The speed with which he solves the problem would often baffle me. I would ask him to explain to me what he did, so that I don`t have to disturb him again. I would then religiously note down his instructions. But the next time I face the same problem , and try to refer to the instructions given to me, I would find that I can`t read my own handwriting. So back to my son who would reluctantly solve the problem after giving me a dressing down for  being such a moron when dealing with the computer.

“How many times I have told you not to  bang the buttons. Modern day keyboards are feather touch and the moment you use force they are bound to fail you”  is the constant refrain I hear not only from my son  and but also from my equally tech savvy son in law who has a lot more patience to teach me how to get the best out of the modern day gadgets like computers, laptops, smart phones etc. But the problem  again is my poor memory which has gone from bad to worse over the years that these days I cannot  remember even simple instructions. I always envy some senior citizens who are tech savvy even in their old  age.

In spite of my discomfort with gadgets I am blessed to own all possible gadgets. Though I have been owning a PC for a long time, I was presented with  a laptop by my children on my 75th birthday. I am also a recipient of a smart phone and a Tablet from my daughter Kavitha. Do I use all of them ? The answer is “yes, I do”. I use my PC for directly keying-in  all my writings because of  the big keyboard and also to deal with my emails. While I use my laptop  as a standby and when I am travelling, I use it  mainly  for participating in zoom meetings. My comfort level with the laptop is greater with zoom meetings because of the mobility it offers. The Tablet is the latest gift which I use to see movies on OTT platforms or on  YouTube. I have begun to also down load books on the Kindle app on my Tablet. And of course  the `Over-smart phone` I use not only to be connected to the world through  WhatsApp but also for minute to minute  access to my emails, Facebook  and other messages.  Undoubtedly a smart phone is the ideal gadget for instant communication in spite of the embarrassment it causes with its auto correct service and the tendency to connect you to people without your knowledge.

While I continue to be semi-literate in dealing with the gadgets, I am proud that I own four of them!