Thursday, March 31, 2022

A memorable trip to Shirdi

A vow fulfilled. The much looked forward  trip to Shirdi to visit Saibaba`s temple happened  this week. As I had mentioned in another article, though  Perumal (Lord Balaji ) and Vinayaka have been my `Ishta Deivams` ( favourite gods) Baba decided to enter my life 4 years ago. Since then I have become an ardent devotee of Baba, visiting his temple located in the neighbor hood, every Thursday. I also  do `Parayanam` of his abridged biography , translated into Tamil by the well known writer Sivasankari. It was she who  told me that Baba decides to enter people`s lives and bless them, whenever he choses. It seems Baba entered her life fifteen years ago when she was in her mid sixtees.Since then she has become an ardent devotee of Baba.

 I had visited Shirdi in 2002 with my wife Prabha, as a part of our visit to several popular temples across India. I was not a devotee of Babha then. Shirdi was not as crowded as it is now. The temple authorities have obviously learnt a lot from the Tirupathi Balaji Temple to handle the burgeoning devotees who visit the temple every day. A lot of systems and procedures  for getting the Darshan are similar to the ones you experience in Tirupathy. My walking friend Rajamannar accompanied me to give me the moral and physical support. My school mate Sundaresan and his wife drove down from Mumbai to join us at Shirdi. We had  a wonderful VIP  Darshan of Baba on Tuesday evening and Wednesday morning arranged  by the travel agent. It ended with a visit to Sai Teerth complex , the Theme park where you can witness four programmes including a film on Baba.

A word about the travel agent  Vasant Kamal who handled the package tour from Chennai to Shirdi and back. The package consisted of  air fare from Chennai to Shirdi and back; one night stay in a three star hotel in Shirdi including three meals consisting of  breakfast, lunch and dinner; Pick up from airport and drop back; cost of two VIP Darshan tickets; use of hotel vehicle for trips within Shirdi, and the services of a guide who is with you from the time he picks you up and drops you back at the airport. Sundaresan used their package for the visit minus the airfare. We were very satisfied with the  very professional way they handled the trip,

Vasantkamal has an office in Chennai and Pune. Mrs Madhavi , the manager of the Pune office handles  all the arrangements. You can contact her directly on her mob no. 95278 44555. or email vkamal21@gmail.com

Jai Sai Ram!

Monday, March 28, 2022

Bob- the Visionary.

Delighted to learn that R.Jagdish Chandran, Bob Chandran to his friends, is turning 80 . While wishing him many happy returns of the day, I thank his family for giving me this opportunity to say something about  my eventful association with him.

 It was during my stay in Delhi between 1971-74 that I first got to know Bob. He was making his official visit to  Delhi as the President of Round Table India in 1974. Since the office bearers of the local Tables had not responded to his communication, I had to take the initiative to organize a  meeting where he could meet all Delhi Tablers. I had a reputation as a reliable Tabler who could be trusted with jobs. I didn`t realise then that it was going to be the beginning of an enduring  friendship with Bob and that I was going to play an important  role in the implementation of his dream project– The Round Table House. A building to be owned by Round Table India where the  National Secretariat of Round Table India was to be located. Why did Bob think of such an idea? As an answer I am reproducing below the following relevant  story recorded by Mrs Gita Narayanan in her book on `The First Three decades of Round Table India`

 `When Bob Chandran became a Tabler as Founder Chairman of Coimbatore’s RT-9, he did not know what a momentous step he was taking. He was, by his own account, a shy and quiet person, unused to socializing or pushing himself forward, not aware of the capacity for leadership that lay within him. The development of his personality over the ensuing years, his access to a position of leadership on the national and international scene where hundreds of young men drew their inspiration from him, the realization of his own potential: these are all what, as he simply puts it, ‘what Round Table did for me’. When the time approached to quit Tabling, he decided to do something as a return of debt for RT India which he believed he owed. What he hit upon was the setting up of a permanent home for RTI so that it would become the only service organization in the country with its own building. So, he offered a donation of Rs. 20 lakh on a condition that the balance must be raised by the Tables and their members.

 On April 18, 1980, a charitable trust in the name ‘Round Table Foundation’ was registered in Coimbatore. The founder trustees of the Foundation were Suresh Gokuldas and R.V. Rajan. When seven more trustees were

appointed in fulfillment of the trust deed, Krish Chitale was named Chairman of the Foundation and R.V. Rajan, its Secretary. The purpose of the trust was to ensure the Round Table House became RT India’s permanent home`.

 At this point I was also shouldering the responsibility as the Chairman of the National Secretariat Committee of RTI.  which was located in my office.  The understanding with my boss in Bombay was that the secretariat would move to the Round Table House within a year. When building plans were first drawn up, it was expected that construction would be completed by the end of 1981. After overcoming several problems the Round Table House was inaugurated at the Madras AGM only  in December,1984. The delay almost cost me my job. But eventually things worked out and I was happy that I could play a role in Bob realizing his dream.

 Though I got out of the board of trustees after 8 years Bob has been continuing to steer the Round Table Foundation, with help from many committed ex- Tablers ensuring that the original objectives are continuing to be adhered to. Today the Round Table House not only is the home for the Round Table India Secretariat but also for  the Secretariats of Ladies Circle India, 41 Clubs  of India and the Tangent Clubs. And the Round Table Foundation has  a huge corpus from which funds are provided for scores of projects of Round Tables across the country, every year.

 I worked closely  with Bob not only on the building  project but also helped him  with many others.

I  had the privilege of producing the AV for Bob when he became the President of WoCo ( the international body to which Round Table India was affiliated ) and also a special presentation titled “Footprints on the sands of time” for raising funds for the Round Table House!

 Bob was the second Indian after Deepak Banker to become the President of WoCo, the international body to which Round Table India was affiliated. As it was Bob’s AGM at Stockholm in 1980 and RTI was pitching India as the venue for the 1983 AGM,  Bob persuaded a group of Indian Tablers to accompany him. While other Tablers could afford the trip on their own, Bob decided to partially sponsor me and Tr. Muralidharan of Coimbatore. I was to be one of the rapporteurs at the AGM, taking minutes of the proceedings — a job I found difficult to handle as I could not hear or understand half the speakers with different accents from different parts of the world.

 The AGM, held at the famous Hall where the prestigious Nobel prizes are presented, was a grand affair! Known for his meticulous planning and preparation, Bob did a great job as the President, conducting the proceedings with aplomb. His carefully prepared address at the President’s Banquet in the evening which was laced with humour, was a big hit. The sit down dinner for over 700 guests was a big treat for every delegate except for a few vegetarians like me.

 I thoroughly enjoyed the trip and am forever grateful to Bob for making it happen.

 Working with Bob made me realise what a visionary he is. He also taught me the importance of meticulous planning,  ability to anticipate problems and relentless pursuit of one`s dreams. Perfection in whatever he did is another quality of Bob I admire.

 I have  had the privilege of having him as a genuine  well wisher all my life. This became evident when he helped me with not only  a part of his company`s advertising business but also financial help, when I started my own advertising agency in 1986.

 I can never forget the wonderful hospitality of  Bob and Sabitha that I  enjoyed during the several visits I made to Coimbatore on work related to Round Table.or my business. His visit to my home to offer his personal condolences within three days of my wife`s passing away on 5th January,2013 is still fresh in my memory.

 Though our paths don`t cross that often these days, I am overwhelmed by the warmth and affection that he still displays whenever we meet.

 Bob  will always remain a special person in my life for not only for   accepting me, a boy from the chawls of Bombay ,  asan equal but also helping me enjoy a special status in Round Table. This  helped me make legions of friends over the years because of which my `Bank of Good will` is always overflowing. If Round Table helped Bob  discover his  hidden talents, it opened up a whole new world to me and  Bob  had a role to play in it.

 While saying a big `THANK YOU` to Bob, I pray God to bestow good health on him so that he will  see more than thousand  moons  and   continue to guide the youngsters in the years to come.

 By R.V.Rajan

( written for the special souvenir brought out by the family on the occassion of Bob`s 80th birthday on 6th March,2021)

 

( Founder Trustee of Round Table Foundation)

Saturday, March 26, 2022

Another encounter with `Yama`

My article titled `My encounters with Yama` featured in my book titled `This & That .. Then & Now, lists a couple incidents in my life when I faced a possible exit from this world because of accidents involving my car. Now I have one more experience to share. It happened a week ago. After visiting  the Shirdi Sai Baba temple in Tiruvanmiyur, my son who was driving my  car (a Maruti Celerio) and I were cruising along on a side  road connecting to L.B.Road. Suddenly we realized that  a Car  from the opposite direction was  coming  towards our car. To avoid  a head on collision my son started veering the car to the left. Before we could blink- `Bang`- the opposite  car hit the  rear door behind the driver, got deflected  and stopped after  hitting  two men on their two wheelers running in front of him. In a dazed condition when we came out of the car we realized that we had narrowly escaped a major head on collision which could have been, if not  fatal would have necessitated hospitalization with serious injuries. However our car was damaged -the rear door behind the driver`s seat, the bumper and the rear wheel were damaged.  Fortunately both of us escaped without even a scratch, so also the driver who caused the accident. The two wheeler riders, however, were badly hurt. Since the driver, an old man, was not drunk people around felt that the accident could have happened because of a burst tyre or because the driver dozed off for a few seconds. As  it was not our fault and there were enough people in the crowd to take care of the injured two wheeler drivers we decided to leave the scene of the accident. My son managed to drive the car to our home, albeit slowly. It has now gone to the garage for  repair and restoration. While I  thanked my Perumal  and Sai Baba for saving us from  a catastrophe, the very thought of the accident, even after a week, sends shivers down my spine!

Sunday, March 13, 2022

One birthday- two celebrations

It looks like yesterday that she was born. But she is already one year old and growing fast. Bakthi, my resident grand daughter and sixth grand child is  truly a bundle of joy. Daughter of my son Balaji and Tulse, she is a happy child who  is forever enchanting you with her charm . She has already started running around but  is yet to start speaking. However  she has no problem in communicating whatever she wants and get it. She has already started playing with her Anna, 4 years old Thavam who is fond of her but does not hesitate to put her in her place when she irritates him. It is fun to watch them hug each other or  fight over little things. Being second child and that too a girl, Bakthi promises to be a naughty girl. Though she was born on 24th Februry,2022, the cake cutting celebration  was held at the Gandhi Nagar Club on Sunday 27th February and the Ayushhomam was celebrated on 13th March- her star birthday, at a mini hall near our home in Sastri Nagar. Like the Byjus`s `one tuition- two teachers`, Bakthi had one birthday  with two celebrations. Join me in blessing Bakthi with a long and happy life!