Sunday, March 24, 2019

What`s App shopping

I was visiting a friend on a social call. While I was in conversation with the friend`s wife, her mobile started ringing. She excused herself and  when she returned after 15 minutes  she looked excited. It seems the call was from her sister in Mumbai, who had called   her on the family `s What`s App group, so that she could get her approval on the sari that she was going to present her on the wedding of her sister`s daughter. `You know , she showed me several saris to choose from , on the video…I could decide on what I wanted. . It was so nice of her`. A good idea which ensures that you present what people like instead of thrusting  something  which the recipient may not like.

Suddenly I remembered that I had also done something similar when I was shopping for a sofa set at an `Interiors Design` exhibition at a popular exhibition Hall. Prompted by my daughter  I sent photographs of a few sofa sets I had identified on our Whats App group, indicating their price range. My daughter whom I respect for her Taste for interior designs,  helped me choose the right sofa set for my home .

This is different from online shopping. I call this `What`s App shopping`! In the case of Online shopping, you go through a whole set of photographs of the different brands of the product you are looking for online and then  make up your mind depending on the best deal on offer.  While in `Online shopping` you don`t  get to physically touch & feel the product,  `What`s App shopping`  involves both physical shopping combined with an online decision. Some one is physically inspecting the product and another person is taking the decision.
I had a pleasant surprise from my son, an ardent online shopper,  a day before Diwali this year.He had ordered  ten  `Brownies` chocolate sweet boxes for distribution,  based on what he saw on the brand`s website. In my keenness to find out what was inside,  I tried to open a box. He stopped me. He showed me the different shots of the contents in the box by opening the webpage of the brand, based on which he had ordered  ten boxes containing assorted pieces with different flavours.  No touch & feel, no tasting. Look and order. That is what the younger generation believes in. This idea is extended by them to even  choose a life partner, in some cases.

My late wife would  have never allowed such shopping. An avid shopper for saris and jewellery,  she believed in visiting several shops , trying out several pieces , before deciding on a particular item.  Invariably, she would have second thoughts  on her choice when she went to pay and at the cash counter found another customer`s choice more attractive. She will start the process of selection all over again. That is not the end of the story. After returning home when she went around showing her new acquisition to friends & relatives, even if  one person made a negative comment she would decide  to visit the shop again and exchange the item for another piece.  In the forty years of our married life I had seen her exchanging hundreds of items, before she was satisfied. The only thing she could not exchange was her husband as  she belonged to the older generation . Unlike  the younger generation of today , many of whom decide to go for a divorce  at the first sign of incompatibility and marry again
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This article appeared in the 24-30th March, 2019 issue of Adyar Times under my column `Rajan`s Random Reflection`

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Wednesday, March 13, 2019

Vizag- The Goa of the East

This year`s valentines day, 14th February,2019,   had a special significance in the lives of a few members of my Rotary Club. Thirty nine of them ranging in age from 4 years to 80, years made a beeline early morning  on the valentine`s day to catch an Indigo flight to Vizag on a memorable family outing programme. 60% of the group were senior citizens. I was one of them. True to Indigo`s  reputation the flight took off on time and landed on time at Vizag airport.
Lord Narasimha of Simhachalam temple  near  Vizag ensured that I paid a proper obeisance to him before I entered the city. As I was climbing the steps in front of the Arrival hall, I tripped and fell , face down, in a typical prostrating posture. I was shocked. Fortunately I got up without any collateral damage to my body much to the relief of the onlookers.
A luxury bus awaiting at the airport took the motely group to Hotel Palm Beach located on the beautiful Beach Road ,  very close to one of the most beautiful beach fronts in Vizag. As the group had to wait for a couple of hours  to check in, the `ideas President` of the Club and the veteran family outing specialist had planned an interesting programme to kick off  the tour with a bang.
 The entire group was moved to a mini Meeting hall where a banner welcomed the Members to the Valentines Day celebration. Plenty of marigold garlands were placed on a table in the centre. The  President then invited members with their spouses to come one by one  to the centre stage and garland each other ( Malai Matral ceremony) and say few words. Once the list of legitimately married couple got exhausted, the President decided to pair the rest of the members who had come without their spouses  (and there were many) at random  to garland each other- a lady member garlanding another lady member and a male Rotarian  garlanding another male member- leading to a lot of mirth and fun;  90 minutes of nonstop laughter- a good beginning to the fun filled holidays to follow.
After a quick check in and switching to picnic costumes; half pants, hats or caps and the mandatory dark glasses,  the group set off in a  bus on a short conducted tour of the city, considered third cleanest city in India.
The lunch  at the well known  Hotel Dasapalla  was not only delicious but the spread was good, catering to all tastes. It was followed by a trip to Ramanaidu Studios and  Kailashgiri, a  Siva temple located on the top of a hill. While the studios boasting of a `Museum of Cinema` looked like an abandoned shooting site with dilapidated buildings, Kailasagiri saw the members taking the rope car to visit the temple. Located atop a hillock there is a 40 ft tall Shiva-Parvati idol overlooking the city. The journey by the mini train around the place was a joyous experience for the group with many indulging in ‘selfies’ to capture themselves in the beautiful background as the train made its way around. Kailasgiri is also home to the Telugu heritage museum which we could not visit due to paucity of time. The tour on the first day ended with an early  dinner at the hotel  where we were staying as the group had to catch an early morning train to Araku Valley  one of the promised highlight of the Vizag trip.
The next morning witnessed the group getting into the fully air conditioned Executive Coach specially attached to a passenger train going to Araku,  carrying with them the  breakfast packets consisting of muffins, sandwiches and bananas  packed by the hotel to be consumed in the train. The group was surprised to find that Idlis and vadas with accompaniments and coffee/tea  were available in the coach.  A few, like yours truly, decided to have a double breakfast- having the muffins & sandwiches and also polishing off the  Idlis and vadas!
The specially designed coach with see through glasses on the sides and the top was virtually taken over by the group  for a fun filled journey to Araku.  As the train was approaching  the valley it had to pass through several small mountains and 33 short and long tunnels, providing a lot of whistling opportunities to both the young and the old in the group. Since it was the last coach, there was a viewing station at the end from which we could see the beautiful sceneries passing by- so also railway tracks zigzagging all along. The viewing station became a centre for a lot of bantering among the members with jokes and anecdotes galore. Group dynamics at its best! Thanks to the single track system the train had to stop at several stations to allow the trains from the opposite side to pass resulting in a delay of three hours. We had to skip the idea of visiting the Borra caves,  an important site in our agenda before reaching Araku as it was nearing lunch time.
On arrival at Araku, we were  taken on a quick visit to Chaparai, a picnic spot boasting of a charming water cascade, which was barren without any sign of water. Disappointed we decided to have our lunch at the A P Tourism Hotel-  a modest but tasty fare. Post lunch driving around the town we saw the Ananthagiri coffee plantation from the roadside, where members bought fresh coffee beans and other spices. The bus also passed through Gali Konda ( Windy Hill), the second highest peak,   which provided a panoramic  view of the valley below. Since there was still time the group decided to proceed to Borra caves which was on our way back to Vizag.
The Borra caves, discovered by William King, a British geologist in 1807, is naturally formed and believed to be 150 million years old! The water percolating from the roof containing calcium bi carbonate and other minerals form mounds on the ground called “Stalagmites” and spear like structures hanging from the roof called “Stalactites”! There is a natural Shivalinga formation deep inside the caves and thousands of tribals visit the caves during Shivaratri. The breath taking hiily terrain and the beautiful landscape are a visual treat to the visitors, and an interesting experience for those who had not seen such limestone formations before
The three hour long return journey was quiet as most of the members had gone to sleep after a hectic day.
The third day`s programme started leisurely at 9.30am with a visit to the famous Narasimha temple at Simhachalam. This 11th Century temple for Varaha Narasimha, situated atop a hill, is an architectural marvel, adorned with ancient scriptures engraved  centuries ago.  And the  tasty Tamarind rice given as `Prasadam` at this temple is  a big hit with the devotees.
Our next halt was at Thotlakonda, the ancient Buddhist Heritage site belonging to the period 3rd Century BC to 3rd Century AD. The ruins of the Monasteries at the site gave us an idea of Vizag`s ancient links to Buddhism. But the icing on the cake was the panoramic view we got of the Bay from the Thotlakonda view point, just a few minutes away from the monastery.  It was like seeing the Marine drive from the Hanging gardens  in Malabar Hills in Mumbai. Both the Monastery and the View point offered plenty of opportunities for selfies and group photos
The lunch at a popular restaurant on the Rushikonda Beach front supposed to serve typical Andhra Meals was a bit of a disappointment as the so called Thali Meals  never made their appearance. Instead we were served individual items , one by one, on ceramic plates, testing the patience of the ravenously hungry group, which turned to angry group. In view of the poor service,  some members began helping the grossly inadequate staff in  serving the dishes. But this was just a  very small hiccup in an otherwise well organised trip.
 The Rushikonda beach also has facilities for various water sports like Kayaking, scuba diving,surfing, parasailing, speed boating and jet skiing. Our group did not enjoy  any of these facilities as it was not in our planned itinerary
Post lunch saw the group visiting the Aircraft and Submarine museums, both located at a walking distance from our hotel. Vizag’s latest attractions, these museums provide a glimpse to the visitors of the lives led by our Navy personnel guarding the country.  INS Kursura, the decommissioned submarine of the Indian Navy, has the distinction of being one of the very few submarine museums to retain its originality. The Aircraft Museum is a preserved Tupolev Tu-142 located across the road from the Submarine museum. This aircraft served 29 years with the Indian Navy, as a submarine destroyer, before being preserved as a museum in Vizag.  Both these museums plus a few other modern museums are a "must-visit destination" of Vizag.
The third evening saw the members relaxing on the beautiful lawns of the hotel with a view of the Sea from a viewing point located on the rear portion of  the lawns. Some even ventured into the beach post the dinner.  Birthday celebrations of the spouse of a Rotarian and a couple of innovative Tambola games  ensured there was enough fun on the last night stay of the group in Vizag,
Since the next morning, the last day of the trip,  was free for members to do what they want, a few decided to have an early morning darshan of Goddess Lakshmi at the Kanaka Mahalakshmi temple located in the old part of Vizag. The uniqueness of the temple is that though there is a big  roof above the Hall, the idol itself has no roof above it. There is no priest- Devotees take turns  to perform their own pujas.
At 12noon, The group checked out of the hotel armed with lunch boxes containing Biryani or Fried Rice or just Thayir sadam ( curd rice). A resourceful Marawari Rotarian had managed to get some lunch boxes packed with Puri Bhajis & a sweet from Chappan Bhog in Vizag, which was selectively distributed among a few members with extra space in their stomachs! It was a sight witnessing the entire group consuming the lunch,  sitting at the departure lounge of the Airport!
After a thoroughly enjoyable trip to Vizag, the group returned to Chennai safely by the Indigo flight reaching Chennai around 4pm. Again on time.
Some useful tips

Ideal time to visit Vizag is between November and February when the weather is fine. If you want to completely cover all the interesting tourist spots in & around  Vizag city you need  at least four nights and five days stay. In addition you have to spend at least one night (rwo days) at Araku valley to see all the interesting sights leisurely. AP Tourism Department has a hotel in Araku  which offers decent accommodation at reasonable rates. Pre booking  is a must. Include the train journey to Araku as a part of your tour itinerary. It is a fascinating experience.