It was my first exposure to the Pongal Festival organised by Nana Nani management at Ananya`s Gaushala. What an experience it was! I was overwhelmed by the mega event to which the residents of all six Phases of Nana Nani Homes were invited.
A place to share my views on this and that; then and now and my professional and personal life
Sunday, January 18, 2026
PONGAL FESTIVAL IN A GAUSHALA
Sunday, January 4, 2026
A ROLE IN A FILM AFTER SIX YEARS!
My good friend Sambad Kumar (82), popularly known as Samji, the self-taught filmmaker, has produced and directed eight short films since he moved into Nana Nani, Phase 4, eight years ago. All the films were based on stories conceived by him and enacted by talented members staying in the community
When he offered me a small role in the film
`ISAI`, I readily agreed. I don't
like acting on stage these days because of my inability to remember long
dialogues, but playing character roles in front of a camera for a film is okay with me. I had acted in scores of plays
in Tamil during my school and college days. I remember playing three-bit roles
in the play `Saint Theagaraja` staged by Matunga Dramatic Society (MDS) , which
had several shows in Bombay and other cities. I had also acted in many other
plays for Manavar Kalai Arangam and the Fine Arts Society started by a group of
friends. I could not continue acting once I joined the high-pressure
advertising profession. Though I had stopped acting on the stage, that did not
stop me from accepting roles in short films or advertising shorts produced by
friends. I enjoy working in films because of the possibility of retakes until
you get the act right.
I was excited because I was going to act in a
film after 6 years. The last one was a three-minute promo film titled ` Not
Out` for a web series, centred around funny stories based on the lives of
senior citizens, in which I was to play the central character. It was to be
produced by Rajeshwari Anand, a very talented writer-director, who, along with
her cinematographer husband Anand, had produced scores of advertising and
telefilms for my agency, Anugrah Madison Advertising. The idea was dropped
because of the pandemic and the uncertainty that followed.
The short film ISAI is based on the life of a
talented Carnatic singer and his inability to get chances to sing in Sabhas
until a good Samaritan, in the form of a popular Vidwan, helps him get one in a
Sabha. The Sabha President, earlier, had refused to give the poor artist a
chance without getting a donation from him. I played the role of the aggressive
and arrogant Sabha President. It was a small role, but it offered me an
opportunity to display my talent as a character actor. The success of the film
and the appreciation I have received for living the role ( not just
acting) has made my day.
Thursday, January 1, 2026
Babu Krishnaswamy A film maker with passion for history
The news of Babu Krishnaswamy`s demise on this Sunday came as a surprise to me. I knew he was ailing for some time, but did not expect the news so soon after receiving a telephone call from him just a few weeks ago. He said it was just a courtesy call, wanting to know how I was doing and that he would be happy to meet me during my next trip to Chennai. During the earlier two trips to Chennai, I could not meet him as he was not in a condition to see me. His wife Mohana also came on the line and said that they would be happy to see me during my next trip, scheduled any time during January 2026. I feel bad that I will not be meeting my good friend of 55 years anymore.
I was introduced to Babu by another good friend, Desikan, who was then with Reader`s Digest. It was the early seventies when Babu was still associated with Jaishree Pictures, in which his two elder brothers were partners, producing ad films, documentaries and radio spots. I had moved to Delhi in 1971 to join ACIL, the sister company of Clarion McCann. A few radio spots produced by them for our Delhi clients brought me closer to Babu.
Babu and his wife Mohana, accompanied by Desi and Nirmala, had attended my wedding on 26th January,1972 in Chennai. Knowing my devotion to Venkatachalapathy, they had organised a car to take Prabha and me to Tirupati for a darshan the next morning. In the evening, Babu hosted a dinner at his house on MG Road, which his whole family, including all his brothers and his famous dancer sister Padma Subramaniam, attended. It was indeed a touching gesture by Babu, which brought us very close, a friendship that grew over the years.
While I was still in Delhi, ACIL commissioned Babu to produce a film for our client CARE, an NGO headquartered in the US, which works in the areas of health and nutrition. We had recommended two alternative approaches — one ‘positive’ to be tested in the villages of Uttar Pradesh and another ‘negative’ to be tested in the villages of Andhra Pradesh. A benchmark study and a post-study conducted by CARE revealed that the negative approach, which used fear produced by Babu, worked better than the positive approach. That experience was also the beginning of my long association with Rural marketing
That was also the time when Babu decided to part company with his brothers to pursue his dream of producing a documentary on the 5000 years of subcontinental history, under his own banner- Kishnaswamy Associates. While he was still fleshing out the idea and seeking funding for the mega project, including from the government, he and Mohana visited my home in Delhi and stayed with me for two days. I got to know more about his mega dream for which he had staked every resource at his command. After many ups and downs, including a mild heart attack caused by the extreme stress he was undergoing, his magnum opus, `Indus Valley to Indira Gandhi`, became a reality. The enormous success of the film made him undertake many other projects dealing with various aspects of Indian civilisation, and television serials on interesting subjects.
I moved to Chennai in 1974 and built a house, close to his palatial home on the first main road in Sastri Nagar. Like me, he also had two daughters and a son with similar age profiles, all of them studying in Sishya. The families became close thanks to the use of our family`s cars in rotation to take the children to school. Babu`s son Bharath was a classmate of my elder daughter Kavita.
The years rolled on with both of us pursuing our businesses, meeting only during family get-togethers or special occasions. Later, my involvement with Consumer Association India started by our friend Desikan, in which Babu was also a part, provided opportunities for us to meet more often.
In all the years that I have known Babu, he has been a dear, caring friend. I found him to be a scholar and passionate about whatever he undertook. An excellent conversationalist, he was very articulate both as a speaker and writer. I had the privilege of extracting the abridged version of his autobiography published in the Madras Musings issue dated June 2018,
His wife Mohana had been a pillar of strength to him in all his endeavours. Babu was always proud of his wife and her immense contributions to his achievements as a filmmaker. Blessed with talented children brought up with the right values, Babu lived a full life, winning many accolades and awards for his role as a filmmaker.
I will always remember Babu for his encouragement and the moral support he extended to me, along with Desikan, when I was going through a turbulent period in my professional life, before I moved to Chennai.
Saturday, December 27, 2025
REINVENTION OF INDIA POST
The following information about Indian Postal Service made me go down memory lane about our postal system. How it has been replaced by the instant communication, across the world, possible through emails and social media today forcing the India Post to reinvent itself.
We used the postcard for open communication and Inland letters or enveloped letters for any communication which required some privacy. If we wanted to secure the delivery of letters or important documents, we had the facility of sending them by Registered Post, with or without Acknowledgement Due. When the electronic payment facilities or even basic banking services did not have the kind of reach it has today, Money Orders were the sure way of sending money from one place to another. VPP was another service offered.
In the olden days, our elders believed in using postcards more often, with information packed using every centimeter of space available in the postcard. It was not unusual to see sentences squeezed into the margins and even the address portions. You had to wait patiently for letters from your near and dear ones, living abroad, sent by Sea Post. They would take more than a month to reach you. Later, the waiting time was reduced to a week when the letters started arriving by air mail.
With the growing popularity of Social media, when the Postal Department found reduced patronage for its services, making huge losses, it had to reinvent itself. It had to think of non-conventional services using its wide network connecting the remotest villages of India. IPO has one of the best distribution networks available in the country for any product or service. No wonder that Post Offices diversified into offering services like Life Insurance, Postal savings. They even offer their Network to Corporates for selling their products. The Indian Post Payments Bank has been taking Banking services to the doorsteps of households, especially rural households.
While the Postal Department is trying its best to stay relevant, it is sad that a whole generation of Indians has grown up without any idea of postal services. The other day, I asked a schoolboy if he had heard of post offices. His response was `What is a Post Office?`
Tuesday, December 23, 2025
A BOOK BY A TEENAGER
I have attended several book launches in my long life, both as a member of the audience and some as a guest of honour. Authors of most of these book launches were adults, including some senior citizens who were releasing their memoirs or biographies. The book launch that I attended on Friday, 19th December, was different. The author was a seventeen-year-old Aadhya Surendar, a school student studying in the 12th standard. Her book `Seventeen and Anxious` was being released at the Cosmopolitan Club, Coimbatore, attended by a large gathering of relatives and friends.
Saturday, December 20, 2025
SOWMYA SRINIVASAN More than a professional Storyteller!
During my recent visits to my younger daughter Sowmya`s home in Coimbatore, I found her busy doing crochet work whenever she has free time- which she has in plenty as both her daughter Uthara and son Keshav left home to pursue their higher education- Uthara doing her PhD in theoretical evolution in Germany and Keshav doing an integrated PhD in Ecology and Evolution at Tata Institute of Fundamental Research in Hyderabad. And her husband, Srinivasan (Retd. Group Captain, IAF), is busy visiting Chennai often on his consultancy assignments.
“I learnt to Crochet from my Athai (father's sister) when I was
in my teens, spending a boring summer holiday in Mumbai with them! The bug bit
me again during the 2020 pandemic, also for the same reasons of boredom! I
renewed my craziness and obsession! Through my initial trials and
tribulations, I made only circular crochet patterns, as I loved the designs.
These patterns were done over the years 2021 - 24! Now I am trying
different patterns!”(The attached photos indicate a few designs she has
done in crocheting.)
I was impressed with how Sowmya keeps herself occupied. Apart
from maintaining a home, Crochet work, Sowmya also keeps herself busy
with activities related to her role as a Professional Storyteller.
Right from her school days in Chennai, she showed an inclination
to be a performing artist, while my elder daughter Kavitha is a Visual artist.
She used to take part in school plays and also learnt Bharatanatyam along with
her sister. We had the Arangetram of the duo in 1987. Though neither pursued
their interest in dancing, the knowledge and experience gained came in handy in
the careers they chose to pursue later.
After acquiring a BSc degree
from Madras University and MPhil in Psychology (HR) from Annamalai University,
Sowmya did a Diploma course in Special Education from the Spastic Society
of India. She was employed there until her marriage in 1998, when she
moved to Bangalore, where her husband was stationed.
Sowmya says, “ It was while working
in the Spastic Society of India, I realised the importance of storytelling
in communicating with the differently abled Children”
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She decided to undergo training in
Storytelling therapy from the World Storytelling Institute (Chennai) run by
Eric Miller. This led to her taking up Professional storytelling as a vocation.
By then, her two children had arrived, and she had given up teaching
differently abled children.
Sowmya has been actively involved
with Professional Storytelling for over 15 years. She uses storytelling
and creative techniques to develop imagination through a venture called
SoulSpace Storytell.
Professional storytelling involves
telling stories not only to children but also to adults. While many
Professional storytellers have used their talent to monetise their talent,
Sowmya, a compassionate girl that she is, decided to use her knowledge to help
society. Being a student of psychology, she has been able to use the
knowledge to devise interesting programmes aimed at different target audiences
The healing storytelling called
Soul Story Mandala is one such effort to engage adults deeply with stories for
self-development and wellbeing. She is an associate at Muktha Foundation,
Bangalore, an organisation working in the space of mental health and abuse
prevention. Recently, she has come together with 3 storytellers from across
India to form the Story Circle of Love that has a vision to spread stories for
renewal and hope in the Community.
She is one of the
founder-members of Bangalore Storytelling Society, a not-for-profit community
that promotes, nurtures and spreads awareness about the Art of Oral
Storytelling. Interestingly, she was one of the five members of the society to participate in a
conversation with Prime Minister Narendra Modi in one of his monthly `Manki
Bath ` programmes.
Sowmya feels that there are no
limits to gaining new knowledge. She has been regularly attending online
courses on subjects related to her vocation. She is a certified
Mindfulness practitioner and Happiness coach.
She has facilitated training programmes and workshops for many
educational institutes and designed the curriculum on Storytelling for some.
In December 2024, she was a Special
invitee Storyteller at the Bursa Storytelling Festival, Turkey. In June 2025,
her workshop on Storytelling & Wellbeing, called Story Mandala, was
selected for the Sydney Storytelling Conference and received heartwarming
reviews.
Among the several recognitions she
has received are the Yuva Shakti award (2021) from Rotary Club Kria Shakthi
(District 3232) and the Vocational Service award from Rotary Club Bangalore
West and RC Spandana (2022).
She is a published author with two
books to her credit. First is a children’s picture book on Pratham Storyweaver
(When Crocodile Craved Chocolate and Chips), and the second is an anthology of
poems called “Dragon of Hope and Other Poems from my life”.
In Coimbatore, in addition to
pursuing varied interests as a professional storyteller, her current field of
work includes curriculum development and learner-centric pedagogy for adults,
and many other initiatives. She is also associated with the Coimbatore Book Club
and the amateur stage in Coimbatore. Her performance in a short play staged by
Coimbatore Arts and Theatre Society recently was well received by the audience.
I am proud of Sowmya and her
achievements and how she has learnt to balance her family commitments with her
other interests. She is fortunate to have a husband who has given her full
freedom to do what she likes to do. I am also lucky that she is based in
Coimbatore, one of the many reasons why I moved to Coimbatore to stay in Nana
Nani.
Pray to God to bestow good health
and lots of energy on Sowmya so that she continues to serve society in her own
ways.
Saturday, December 13, 2025
R.T.Chari- A philanthropist with a vision
R.TChari ( 86 ) is considered
a crusader in the music and heritage circle of Chennai. He built TAG center, an
auditorium on TTK Road in the heart of Chennai. not to make money. but to primarily
conduct programmes of his choice and to derive great joy in throwing it open to
friends and well-wishers as well? Always preceded by a sumptuous South Indian
tiffin.
Chari is a hands-on philanthropist,
who never believed in cheque book charity. He has been sharing his wealth with the society,
long before Corporate Social Responsibility became a buzz word in the corporate
world!
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Chari was born in a middle class family of nine children at Mundakanni Amman Koil Street in the heart of Mylapore, His father, could only assure his children three square meals a day and decent education. Chari was mildly dyslexic as a student making his brothers tease him about it. This made him an angry young man who was determined to prove to the world what he was capable of
The family`s move to
Tambaram where he joined a School run by Christian missionaries, became the
first turning point in Chari`s life.. The headmaster of the school discovered
that not only was Chari a good student but the tall young man was also good in
sports.
“My success in sports
and the recognition I got because of it changed the attitude of my family
towards me.They stopped teasing me” Chari recounts.
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Chari`s
second break in life came when he got the admission to the
prestigious College of Engineering, Guindy, because of a timely help provided by a distant relative
who was the Chief Secretary of Tamil Nadu at that time,.After successfully
completing his degree in Engineering,Chari joined Seshasayee Group as an
Apprentice Engineer in 1961.
Chari’s reputation as an
engineer who was also a super salesman brought him quick recognition in the
company. By1972 he had become the Chief
Technical Commercial Manager.
Chari was married to
Rangi, a multitalented girl from Bangalore, chosen by his parents, in 1971.Within
two weeks of his starting his married life, fate again intervened to change the
course of his life.
Chari was selected by his
company to attend a ‘Foundry Exhibition’ in West Germany and also explore a
possible collaboration in Europe.During his trip Chari managed to strike a deal
with an Italian company, leading maker of the particular product his company wanted to produce. However, on his
return to India, he found to his dismay that the Management, had decided to
drop their expansion plans.
Not one to accept
defeat, when Chari requested the management to allow him to try his luck with
the new project, they agreed. They allowed him to continue as a Commercial
Manager with the company until he proved himself in his business. Chari could
have his cake and eat it too! This turned out to be the ultimate break in his
life
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Along with his brother
Gopal who had also come out successfully as an Engineer from the College of
Engineering, Guindy, Chari launched TAG Corporation with its factory located in
Chrompet.
TAG Corporation had developed
an import substitute item for 4R Dampers, with half the weight and price, which
were in great demand by all the Electricity Boards in the country. Chari became
the uncrowned king in the manufacture of 4R Dampers, By now he had also cut his
umbilical cord with Seshasayee group.
Chari started seeing big
money and instead of just hoarding the money, he decided, at the young age of 40, to share
his prosperity with society. From being a successful businessman,
Chari was on the road to becoming a generous philanthropist.
For Chari, ‘charity
began at home”. He decided to persuade, cajole and if necessary help
every one of his siblings to acquire a house of their own.
At this stage Chari also
realized the immense joy he was getting by the act of giving and sharing. He started supporting deserving health related projects in Chennai.
While Chari was
continuing with his generosity, an incident in his personal life completely
changed the direction of his philanthropic activities.
Sharing wealth with
music
In his college days Chari was fond of hearing
only Tamil, Hindi and English film songs .He would get peeved when he was not allowed to listen to his
favourite `Binaca Geethmala` programme, as his brothers used to listen to
Carnatic music on the only radio available in the house. This resulted in his
developing an aversion towards Carnatic music.
One evening when he was
hosting a dinner for some of his family members, he found that the entire
conversation was revolving around Carnatic music. He felt terribly left out. Looking
at his displeasure his brothers-in-law challenged
him to listen to 500 hours of Carnatic music to realise its magic. Chari
accepted the challenge.
He started listening to
the tapes of famous Vidwans for a couple of hours every night. His
brothers-in-law was proved right. Chari was hooked to Carnatic music in a big
way. Soon he became a donor member of Music Academy, attending concerts
regularly. Chari realized that Carnatic music was not only giving him great joy
but also helped him to become a calmer and a focused person.
Just as he had decided
to share his wealth with the deserving in the society, he also decided to share
the joy of listening to Carnatic music with his close friends and relatives.
His first initiative in
this direction was to hold Chamber music at his remodeled flat in Poes Garden.
For 10 years, Chari organized nearly 50 chamber concerts lasting for about 150
minutes each, always followed by a sumptuous dinner for all the invitees.
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This abiding interest in
Carnatic music led Chari to collect more than 6000 hours of carnatic music. Chari
realized the need for chronicling and preserving the treasure trove of music he
had collected for posterity.
The idea for a Digital
Listening Library was born. Chari persuaded the Music Academy in which he was
already an executive committee member to house the proposed TAG Music Academy Digital
Listening Archives which was launched at the Music Academy on 13th December
2008.
Chari says, “The user
can in 10 seconds listen to a song of his choice, categorized under a raga, name of the song, singer or composer”
Chari sponsored similar archives in Bangalore, Mysore,
Hyderabad, and Pallakad, apart from the one in Madras University`s Music Department
besides Singapore and Sri Lanka.
Chari decided to
also extend his help in archiving Indian classical dance. The TAG
Viewing Gallery was launched at the Music Academy adding one more dimension to
the Academy`s efforts in promoting classical music and dance.
His passion for music
and how it should be received by the audience extended beyond TAG Centre, which
he owns. TAG Corporation has already sponsored state-of-the-art auditoriums in
many schools and colleges in Chennai. He constructed the Super Tech 400 seater
auditorium at the Guindy Engineering College, his alma mater, which he
considers as one of his best contribution
The next big project that
Chari launched in February 2002 was
the TAG South India Heritage Programme. Held on the last Sunday of every month,
these lectures focused on specific aspects of South Indian Heritage, by eminent
speakers
Under the auspices of
South India Heritage programme, in the last 25 years he has arranged over 650 lectures, lec-dems, music concerts, plays,
religious discourses, Tamil book reviews and many more.. Both Tag Centre and the South
India Heritage Programme have become synonymous with cultural excellence. The
South India Heritage Programme also recognized exceptional music talent with the
Ramabadhran Centenary Music Award, instituted in 2004, named after his father
and outstanding performances in Heritage
promotion by young achievers were recognized through the Vedavalli Memorial
Heritage Award, named after his mother.
Chari has also published a 600 page book titled
`South India heritage-an Introduction` which has contributions from 40 eminent
scholars. This book is given free to any one going abroad for further studies.
Among the recognitions
he has got is the S Rajam Award of Excellence for his exemplary work in
preserving and promoting fine arts, performing arts and cultural heritage of
South India by Sunanda Trust,. On the professional front Chari has been a
recipient of the Udyog Patra Award from Government of India. The other
recognitions include the Best Alumni Award from Guindy Engineering College.
Chari credits his wife for playing a big role in bringing up his children with right values, while he was very busy with his business and other activities. He also would like to recognize the role of his brother Gopal who was a pillar of strength to
him in his business.
Chari`s sons have now taken
over the day to day running of his highly successful business Age and health issues have slowed down Chari’s
saga of service to society in the area of health, education, music and heritage
and other social causes. But he continues to have a monthly get together of
chosen friends, all in the age group of 70 plus, on the last Sunday of every
month at Tag Centre, where he arranges a programme which entertains and educates them. Always preceded by a
sumptuous breakfast of South Indian
delicacies! A visionary with an indomitable spirit, indeed!