Saturday, February 25, 2023

Hinges of friendship never rust

As I have mentioned in my autobiography,  membership in Round Table India, a youth organization with similar objectives like Rotary opened up a whole new world to me when I was 26. I joined  Bombay West Round table no.6 in Bombay(1968-71), later shifted to Delhi Round table no.5 (71-74), and finally landed at Madras West Round Table no.10 in 1974. Truly an All-India Tabler. I took to the Round table like a duck to water. Over the next  16 years, I not only got actively involved with the activities of the Assn at the national level but also got the Distinguished Service Award from the association, one of the first two-floor tablers to win this coveted recognition, for my role in helping with the  Round Table House project, a dream project of Bob Chandran of CBE.

 As an active member of MWRT 10, I made some close friends whose friendship I continue to enjoy even today- thanks to 41 Club no 7, a club of predominantly ex-members of Table 10. One of the most active 41 clubs in India, the club ensures that the  `hinges of friendship we made during Round table days, never rust`- which is the basic objective of 41 Clubs of India an association of ex-tablers across India. We meet regularly every month. The meetings are hosted by members in public facilities or their homes. Club members contribute a small sum as their share of the expenditure.

It is a meet-and-greet fellowship opportunity and a fun evening where members spend time going down memory lane.  Over the years we have lost some important members to old age-related health issues. However, we continue to invite the spouses of such members as special invitees to our get-togethers.

The Feb.,23, dinner was hosted by a group of five special invitees ( Sangeeth Chopra, Gita Mehtras, Venu Kesu,  Hema Krishnan, and Usha Sudhir) at the spacious residence of Sangeeth Chopra, the charming spouse of the ever-popular (late)Inder Chopra ably supported by the son (Rahul) and daughter in law (Anu) of Venu Kesu. The evening had the touch of ladies in the way it was meticulously planned and executed.  Floral decorations with small `Diyas` in the center were placed on all the tables. A live band was singing retro film songs in Tamil & Hindi. A special bar counter with a variety of spirits was there to raise the spirits of members.

The meeting also witnessed  Rani Ananth spouse of C.S Ananth,  briefly describing her life story and Gopi sharing a recent medical emergency he faced. There were mandatory birthday & wedding anniversary greetings by President Ganesh Kini who also briefly outlined the recent activities conducted at the Area Meet. As a token of appreciation, the hosts were also presented with special gifts. Some members took over the mike from the band and belted out songs they knew. There was also some dancing by the ladies.

A well-known caterer was in attendance serving a variety of delicious starters – both veg. and nonveg. They were so delicious that most of the members made a meal of the starters that they could not do justice to the main dinner fare offered later, as it happens in many such dinners. I was so full of the starters that my stomach could accommodate only some `Thayir Sadam` and the desert!

The highlight of the evening was the participation of some children of the members who were also  41ers in some other clubs in the city. There was a  record attendance of over 40 thoroughly enjoying the well-organized dinner meet.  Thanks, Sangeeth and team for a memorable evening! Truly `Hinges of Friendship` among ex-tablers never rust!

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